Yo, first night out in a club after coming back from break. Got a quick FR and some questions about what went down. (Posted this on Juice24's dance floor thread in approaching and openers as well)
Alright, so after going to a boring pub with some mates, me and one of my friends decided to hit up a club that supposedly had good music.
We got there, and it seemed dead at first. I was afraid to go on the dance floor, but luckily my mate had a bit more courage and dove straight in. I then took your advice Juice24, and just started dancing and trying to enjoy myself. It was actually really good, I only drank water the whole night, and the club was not to full, nor very empty. There was enough people, and enough space to dance as well.
Soon, these two girls come up (HB6 and HB8), without making eye contact, and start dancing near me. HB8 kind of backs up so she pretty much on me, and starts spinning around. Her friend, HB6, then runs to me laughing and says "She wants to get with you", and then both of them back off a bit giggling. They kept on moving away, and then coming back. At one point, HB8 even goes and grabs my crotch, and runs away laughing. I at no point tried bringing her in to dance closer, although she came close to me a few times. At one point I tried a butt bump, which kind of went wrong (Misjudged distances, kinda knocked her over I think...
), and that was pretty much the last I saw of HB8.
Then some other girls come (HB7, HB7, HB8), and start taking pictures with me, and randomnly coming up and dancing with me, and taking more pictures. They even took off my glasses, put them on, and took pictures with me while wearing my glasses. I moved in and started dancing with these girls once or twice, but I wasn't sure how to go about making a move on any of them. So nothing happened there either. An interesting thing though, is that the HB8 which I tried to butt bump came back and backed her way into the group of girls I was dancing with, without ever facing me.
A guy even came up to me at one point, hugged me, grabbed my hand and kissed it, which was a bit freaky. I quickly gtfo of there!
It was also a bit annoying though, because every time a group of girls came close to me, half of the guys in the club would crowd around. I kept on having to move away and find free spaces to dance.
Overall, it was a fun night (I like dancing, and the music was excellent!), but I have two questions:
1.) I was doubting if the girls were in to me, or just thought I looked stupid and were having a laugh at my expense. I didn't get much EC, but they were constantly near me, and came up to dance with me a couple of times. I would always try to get EC, but no one would maintain it or match it. I felt the signals were mixed, and I'm never sure if girls are making fun of me, or if they like me.
2.) If the girls come up to you, how rough do you have to be in dragging them to dance with you. I was afraid to be too aggressive, so I didn't try anything really.
CHAT
