Something just recently occurred to me.

When I'm sarging, I like getting a girl on the dance floor because I find it helps build a physical and sexual connection.

However, here's what happened on New Years to me. I met this blond HB 6.5. After about 2 minutes, I got her on the dance floor. Things were going well, and she was freaking the hell outta me. Usually, when I’m freaking a girl from behind, I like reaching around her and putting my hand on her stomach. I did this with the blond. She wasn’t fat, but she had a little bit of a gut, and she kept moving my hands to her waist, or even higher. Things were going well, but she stopped dancing with me kinda suddenly.

I think I know what part of the problem was. Girls are extremely self conscious about their bodies. It didn't help that I had my hand right on her gut. I'm sure this made her self conscious and uncomfortable.

The same thing happened to me last night. I was dancing with this girl HB7 and did the same move with my hand. She kept moving my hands to her waist. She wasn’t fat, but again she had a bit of a gut. I got the hint this time, and stayed away from the area. I ended up making out with her and number closing.

Here's what I think about this move. If she has a flat stomach, then she'll love showing it off and having your hand there. If you're locked in and she feels completely comfortable with you sexual, then you can get away with this move.

However, if you've just met a girl and you're dancing with her, stay away from putting you hands on her stomach. Even if she likes you, this move will make her self conscious and she won’t be focused on dancing and letting her inhibitions go. She’ll be focused on your hand on her gut and whether or not it grosses you out and she'll feel uncomfortable. And we all know what happens when people are uncomfortable, they try and distance themselves from the situation. It may cause her to stop dancing with you. Instead, only graze the area with your hands, and try and focus on her waist, ass, and other areas.

I love to hear any feedback on this topic.

i think thats a damn good observation, i mean hell if i have a stomach that not really kept or anything i wouldnt really have something to showoff
but if i worked out and got abs then i would be happy as hell if a girl would touch them, like being rewarded for your hardwork on keeping your body well, this kind of stuff i would do subconciously to not hold at the gut but its great that you pointed it out and made it obvious, again great observation

lol i don't think that had ever happened to me and I usually put my hand on their gut. sometimes i go even lower. I'm so touchy when i dance lol. I'm all over their body. I love it when girls wear, whats that called, spandex? and a dress over it. It's soooooooo sexyyyyyy. Lol I admit sometimes i get a semi-boner when she can fuckin work it. and girls know it and they love it lol.