| Let me preface this first of all by saying I don't look for girls online. No offense to anyone that does, I just prefer to go to clubs etc... But it is fun to test out some things online. I'm pretty new at this myself, so it's good to get some conversational reps in too (I like to see what most responses are to opinion questions usually, since that translates to the field well). I also don't like posting convos, just from an ethical standpoint, but I'm trying to be forward thinking with this.
So here's the setup. Cute girl, HB7 to most probably, but I loved her face, so HB7.5 in my book.
On myspace. Her profile was open, mine was closed. I sent her a message with a female opinion opener. Definitely a real person, social page with real friends not trying to look slutty but a lot of party pics etc...
Whole convo. Highlighted in red some interest points (CF, IOIs, attempts at validation etc etc...).
Used:
1 Opinion Opener
1 DHV Game
1 DHV Story
1 Adjusted call-back routine (your other name)
1 Fit-but-not-crazy-hot body shot on profile page
C+F like crazy
Me:
I'm looking for some female opinions on something, and you look female... then again who knows, lol.
My niece is 8 years old, and she wants to get her ears pierced. She told her dad, but I mean he works so hard, he's so busy, he really doesn't know what's right. So he came to me because he trusts me, and wants me to decide.
My niece says all of her friends and classmates have them, and I believe her, but is 8 too young to get piercings?
THAT GIRL:
for ears no. most girls get there ears pierced when they are between the ages of 2 months and two yrs cuz it doesn't hurt as bad.
Me:
That's true. But usually if you get them done that young, your parents decide to do it. Unless you're some super genius baby, lol.
She decided herself she wants to get them pierced. Isn't that too young to look all pretty for the boys?
THAT GIRL:
well i got my ears pierced when i was 8 so personally no i don't think it's to young.
and it's not really gettin all pretty ferr the guys, its being a girl and wanting to wear ear rings and stuff like that.
Me:
How old were you when you first noticed guys then?
THAT GIRL:
i was like 6.
but everyone is different.
&& if your so concerned about her with boys
then maybe you should have the birds and bees talk with her.
but ear piercings are the least of your worries.
now when she wants to go get her tongue or belly button done,
then worry cuz those are ferr the boys.
Me:
wow, 6... I could have been playing in the sandbox making castles then and you could have been checking out my butt, lmao.
Here's what I'll do. I'll have her tell me again why she wants them. If she wants them just so she can be like the other kids, or look pretty for the boys, I'll say no, that's just not a good enough reason. If she wants them because she thinks they look pretty, for herself, I'll say yes.
You're good at this, lol. You sound like your friends come to you with this kinda stuff all the time.
THAT GIRL:
haha everyone comes to me with stuff like this.
or just questions period, i guess im just very approachable
Me:
lol, my friends are the same way with me. you're just like my cheat sheet, haha.
THAT GIRL::
oh thats fucked up.
lol.
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Me:
lol, well I'd have to know you better before I start taking advice from you. Right now, you're just a cheat sheet. haha.
you seem interesting enough though. tell you what, we'll play the 4 points game. I'll ask you to picture four things and describe them, and from those four things I can tell you everything about yourself. i stole it from one of my ex's cosmo mags, lmao. You game?
THAT GIRL:
yah im game.
so how do we play?
**I send her a message telling her the game, but it's not read**
::: NO ANSWER FOR A FEW MINUTES ::::
(I used this time to transition to AIM. I was waiting till I had more comfort with her to do it, because she had it up on her page.)
::: AIM Starts :::
*My AIM name is the same as my MySpace one, so I didn't have to explain who I was*
Me: this seems like a much easier place to play, lol.
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: do you have your game face on?
THAT GIRL: haha yah but yerr gonna have to give me a min so i go smoke a ciggy
Me: so you want me to wait for cancer
Me: that's a crappy thing to make me wait for
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: well yerr not getting it
Me: just don't come back with smokers breath
:::SESSION ENDS::::
:::SESSION BEGINS:::
THAT GIRL: heya
Me: you look familiar
Me: did we just talk a few moments ago and you bailed on me?
Me: because you sound just like that girl
THAT GIRL: haha no i went to smoke and yahhh
Me: lol, it's alright. you'll make it up to me
Me: but you better not suck at this game
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: alright
Me: this is how you play. i am going to tell you to name four things, and you are going to describe each thing with three words
Me: so if i said, for example
Me: name a building
Me: you might say empire state building
Me: and three words could be like, tall, dangerous, ugly
Me: understood?
*Notice I say understood, rather than a more common understand? I think this demonstrates more authority*
THAT GIRL: yahhh
Me: alright
Me: first one
Me: 1. Pick a color, 3 adjectives.
THAT GIRL: Purple
Me: now three adjectives to describe how that color makes you feel
Me: so three describing words
THAT GIRL: happy, aroused, exotic
Me: 2. Pick an animal. Describe that animal with 3 words.
THAT GIRL: white tiger gorgeous/amazing/exotic
Me: 3. Now think of a river, you don't have to name one. But pick 3 describing words for it.
THAT GIRL: colorado river fun/warm/memories
Me: And lastly, picture yourself in an all white room with no doors or windows. Three words to describe how you feel.
THAT GIRL: alone/secluded/hasty
Me: I'm surprised, you did pretty well! lol
Me: ok, this is what it all means
Me: the color is how you view yourself
Me: so you're a happy, horny exotic girl
Me: lol
Me: the animal, is how you view your friends
Me: they are gorgeous, amazing people
Me: exotic just like you
Me: the river, is how you see your sex life.
Me: it's fun with a lot of good memories
Me: and the white room, is how you feel about death
Me: so you worry about being alone when you die
Me: and hope it comes quickly when it does
Me: on a scale of 1-10, how accurate was that for you?
THAT GIRL: thats trippy
Me: i'll take that as a 10
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: yahhhhhhhhhhh
Me: i don't need you aroused when you're talking to me though. you gotta stop that. you're not my type, haha.
Me: remind me not to use purple font
THAT GIRL: what do you mean im not yerr type
THAT GIRL: ???
Me: you're a horny exotic girl, lol. i'm a horny exotic guy.
Me: we'd never get out of bed in the morning
Me: the bills would never get paid
Me: you'd pretty much ruin my life
Me: lmao
THAT GIRL: i'd either ruin your life or make yerr life alot of fun
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: i'm not sure if that's worth the risk, lol.
Me: it'd have to be a helluva lot of fun, lol
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: when i did that, my friends were all horny because i picked a rabbit
Me: and rabbits are frickn horny all the time
Me: lol
Me: so i don't know if that's a good thing or a bad thing
Me: but this makes sense now that you're here, lol
THAT GIRL: im confused about the last part
Me: i said the rabbit was sneaky, horny and cute
Me: so i'm starting to think you're the rabbit
Me: lmao
THAT GIRL: hahaha
Me: you just stay on your side of the continent, i'll stay on mine
Me: and we wont have to worry about any trouble
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: but but but what if i don't wanna stay on my side
Me: we have a bigger problem than that
Me: what if i'm in LA, you're going to have to go to new york or something
Me: you can't be on my side of the states
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: i'm in XXXXXXXXX
Me: XXXXXXX is too close to LA for my comfort
THAT GIRL: haha thats where i am
*reinforces where she is*
Me: lol
Me: we'd have to ship you to alaska
Me: you remind me of this one girl i met the last time i was up in LA
THAT GIRL: is that a good thing or bad thing
Me: lol
Me: well
Me: i met her at some afterparty for some big event i was covering (i'm a writer) at hef's. nicest girl in the world, you'd think being a bunny she'd be like, all egotistical and shit? lol. no. her and her friends she introduced to me were the sweetest people you'd ever meet. long story short, i missed my plane the next morning because of this girl
Me: lol
Me: i told myself the whole time too, "don't miss the plane, don't miss the plane" lol
Me: but she hijacked my brain
Me: i needed like, tattoo or something there. that little guy from that old TV show. someone to point and scream like "the plane! the plane!"
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: girls like you are trouble
Me: all you do is get me in trouble
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: no we're not
Me: you're just saying that to get on my good side
Me: i can't trust you lol
THAT GIRL: no im being honest
THAT GIRL: im not the type of girl to get in a guys head.
THAT GIRL: that's not me
Me: well it's not so much getting in my head that was the problem
Me: it was getting in my pants
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: yahhh but even if i get yerr pants i wont keep you from the things you need to do, i'd be the girl to wake up yerr ass to get you to yerr plane
Me: i don't know what makes you think you'd have the energy to wake up if you stayed the night with me, lol.
THAT GIRL: i got alarm clocks
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: you know what i think about alarm clocks
Me: i think i'd rather be woken up with some sex, lmao
*this is only okay because sex is being insinuated anyways*
Me: that's the problem
THAT GIRL: lol...i could wake u up to that lol
Me: see, i told you!
Me: trouble
THAT GIRL: not uh!
Me: no no no! i caught you!
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: no i just stated i would wake u up to somethin you'd like
Me: and i'm going to like it so much i miss my plane
Me: lol
Me: i'm on to you
Me: i bet you and this girl are friends
THAT GIRL: no wayyyy
*I love this one. She's basically saying NO WAY! would I be friends with someone that you pushed out of your reality*
Me: we wouldn't have time for sex. you'd have to suck my XXXX =P
Me: but if you sucked at it it would take too long
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: ooo i like that
Me: so you'd have to not suck
Me: on a scale of 1-10 then, how good are you?
Me: and you can't say 10 because that's bullshit
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: 8
Me: see, now that's perfect
Me: damn good with room for improvement
*Pat her on the head for being compliant, lol*
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: I didn't send you a friends invite did I?
Me: i dont think so but that site is terrible, lol
Me: stuff is always weird
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: i'll take that as a no, lol
Me: now you have to tell me three reasons why i should even give it to you, lol
THAT GIRL: i'm cute, i'm funny, you'll have a good time with me
Me: that's weak!
Me: lol
Me: i'm gonna let you in though
Me: BUT!
Me: only because your name is XXXXX
Me: and one of my ex's was XXXXX
Me: which is KIND of the same
Me: lmao
Me: and she was fun
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: alright. i sent you an invite. but don't get any funny ideas
Me: your side of the continent remember, lol
THAT GIRL: ........okay..........
Me: i've got a good thing goin down here in XXXX, i don't need you sexing me up and making me miss flights, lol
Me: oh no wait, that's right
Me: you've got that built in alarm clock of yours
Me: lol
Me: forgot about that
Me: i'm going to have to rethink this
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: I was in XXXX last year for XXXXX
Me: where the hell were you
Me: lol
Me: i could have used an alarm clock
THAT GIRL: XXXX (her city)
Me: that was my only time in XXXX, so i don't have a clue where that is, lol
Me: you'll have to show me next time.
Me: wait, why would i ever go back to XXX, lol
*She called her town po-dunk in her profile so this was an indirect commonality by showing disinterest in the town, plus it shifts control to me*
Me: next time you're in XXXX (my state)
Me: that's much better
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: (LINK TO ONE OF HER PICs/w a guy)
Me: that picture
Me: is way too hot for your own good
Me: or my good
Me: lmao
THAT GIRL: yah you know you wish that was you don't lie
Me: i wish you had more so i could figure that out, lol
Me: you're supposed to be exotic and crazy
THAT GIRL: well come take pics with me
Me: they do have video cameras these days you know
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: you don't look like that kinda girl though
Me: don't get me wrong, you're still trouble, lol
Me: but i dont think you're that crazy
THAT GIRL: oh you don't think im crazy
Me: 2009 and you've never made a video
Me: trust me
Me: you aren't that crazy!
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: wanna bett?
Me: what am i going to bet
Me: i'll bet you another conversation sometime
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: i don't know how you intend to prove this
THAT GIRL: come to... (HER INFO...)
Me: if i wanted to get laid i'd just walk next door, lol
Me: i do need a crazy girl though
THAT GIRL: well you'll just have to give me a shot
Me: tell you what, you have a video camera?
THAT GIRL: nope
Me: this is what you have to do then, lol
Me: find a friend that does, and show me that you actually are this crazy girl you're saying you are, lol
THAT GIRL: haha ok
Me: yeah i'll expect to see that video in 2023
Me: lmao
Me: you don't have the balls miss
Me: ... well, i hope not
Me: figure of speech
Me: lol
*questioned how crazy she was and her femininity all at once*
THAT GIRL: haha trust me ill do it
Me: yeah yeah whatever, lol
THAT GIRL: you'll see
Me: you know how confident i am about this
Me: let's bet on it
Me: if you win, we'll figure something out... lol, that's a secondary thought. it's not gonna happen
Me: if i win, you can't talk to me anymore
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: well, i'll still let you talk to me i guess, you're kinda cool. but there's no way you're getting in my pants
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: lol
THAT GIRL: trust me ill get in yerr pants one way or another
Me: not without that video lol
*In some twisted way I guess this was showing standards, lmao*
Me: see you're trying to weasel your way out already
Me: already backin out lol
THAT GIRL: i never said i was backin out
Me: do it this upcoming week then.
Me: football is this sunday so you can get your friend drunk as hell
Me: hahaha
*I build a time constraint here to accomplishing this*
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: that has to be the new bet
Me: by the end of this week
Me: if you can't get it done with playoff football
Me: it's just not gonna get done
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: lol
THAT GIRL: it'll get done
*Now I can bust on her afterwards if she doesn't get it done*
Me: haha, smart girl.
Me: wow jesus christ
Me: it's almost 5 am here
Me: SEE
Me: SEE
Me: SEE
Me: ALREADY
Me: getting ME
Me: in TROUBLE
Me: omg
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: not uh
Me: i'm going to go to sleep. but i'm keepin an eye on you
Me: lol
THAT GIRL: okay
THAT GIRL: ill be on yerr side of the continent soon
*Notices how this shifts from me coming to her, to her coming to me*
THAT GIRL: (kissyface)
Me: haha
THAT GIRL: nighty nighty
Me: actually, one more thing
Me: what was your guys name?
Me: ok that sounds weird, ahaha
Me: what i mean is
Me: when you were born
Me: you were given a girls and a guys name
Me: like, if you were a boy
Me: do you know what your mom woulda called you?
THAT GIRL: alexzander
Me: lol
Me: mine was mellisa
Me: HAHA
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: so next time you message me, be like
*introduced the idea of her contacting me again*
Me: yo mellisa
Me: it's alexzander
Me: so i don't forget ya
*I imply that she's just another girl in my life, or just a random girl that is trying to get to know ME (as opposed to the other way around), and I might forget her*
THAT GIRL: lol
Me: hahaha
Me: gnite kiddo!
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To be seen if any of this goes through. Regardless I think it was a successful convo.
Last edited by The Script on Fri Jan 09, 2009 11:23 pm, edited 1 time in total.
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