Ok so here's my problem... I have a pretty loud voice, I am a Marine so I've learned to art of being loud when necessary however the tone of my voice seems to be at a frequency easily drowned out by hip hop music. Any ideas how to project my voice better without blattenly yelling at girls?? And without always DLV'ing by leaning in?? Thanks fellas..

Go to a quieter spot.

I hope you're not walking out to the dance floor to try to talk to girls. It doesn't work very well. Dance floors are primarily for dancing.

this is a problem where I'm at from time to time, some bars just suck because they are just too loud, I've begun avoiding these places.

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One thing that I've tried out (not very well tested) is to whisper a one or two liner in her ear that leads to physical communication (like tickling).

also had this problem and know what you mean. you dont want to shout and burst ear drums and even though leaning in can be acceptable (if she leans back = IOI) its still not something you want to be doing every time you want to speak. something i realized i did quite naturally was to cup my hand around my mouth in the same style as if when you were telling someone a secret. This allows you to lean in and direct speech better and also to get closer and able to touch her face ie building kino. do this a few times then as you build the convo but gradually making it less emphasized. I have found by doing this that after a few minutes, you simply need to make the gesture with your hand, (moving it towards your mouth) and the girl will lean into you, as you've almost trained her so to speak, into realizing that this means you are going to talk.

hope this helps

Fellas~

I frequently run game in the loudest night club in Nashville! I don't have the best voice either. If you don't believe be check out one of my videos. www.youtube.com/user/JSmoothDating Anyways, the point is that all you need to do is practice projecting your voice. I don't mean yelling either.

You have to practice projecting your voice from the diaphram. A great way to practice doing this stuff is using a tape recorder. Put it on the other side of a large room, put some music on in your place, and open! See how well you can hear yourself on the recorder, and without yelling.

It can be done and is done all the time. I understand it's a hurdle to get around and it makes things more difficult but it can be done!

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Don't worry about DLVing, thats some made up mystery/strauss stuff. So thats one thing thats holding you back. If you have to lean in, lean in, i lean in alot to talk into their ears, and i still end up hooking up with them. Attraction isn't a choice, so none of that stuff is relevant. If she is attracted to you and your style,or confidence, she will want you. Even if you lean in so close you accidently slip and fall on her.

This technique will help you as a Marine, should you ever be in combat. It works well in a club, too.

Use both hands.

• Cup one hand over the non-hearing ear.
  With the other hand, press the little piece of skin that juts out of the hole the ear., so that it closes the hole of the ear.
  Speak into the ear that is not cupped.

You can spek in a normal tone and the person will hear you clearly.



This also allows immediate kino, so what you say to her has got to be worth her hearing, because until you demostrate value to her or build attraction, she will be uncomfortable with you touching her.

I used this when on the range during Army training. I use it in the clubs a lot, when I can't find a quieter spot.

Speaking of which, i bought some ear plugs that you cannot see unless you are looking for them. Some of the clubs music is so loud that I cannot hear well for thrree days, all the while my ears are ringing. You can still hear normal conversation with them in, you just are reducing the decibels of the music.

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