Ok so here's the deal. I went out to the bar with a friend of mine that is a chick. She knew this one girl who was there who comes into her work sometimes. Anyway, this chick was a hb6 but her friend was a hb8.5. I started gaming and everything went perfect. She was giving me IOI's left and right. She was telling me I was hot. She was coming to find me after I said I'm gona go hang with some friends for a minute. Long story short, I got her number. When I called her, she kept telling me how nice it was to meet me, how hot I was, etc. I talked to her ONE time after that and on that call, she said that we should hang out soon. Now every time I call her, I just get her voicemail. I finally deleated her number as I assume it's a lost cause. What am I doing wrong? I read a pretty cool article on this website called attractology.com. It said that a lot of times a girl will flake on you when they KNOW that they are really attracted to yu because they know if they answer your phone calls, sex WILL happen. What do you guys think? ANY advice would be great as this happens A LOT.

There are so many variables!!

You don't know if she has personal problems. Maybe she's got a boyfriend. Who knows??

I think your mistake was not trying to set up the day two during the interaction. Remember that getting the phone number is just the means to get in touch her for whatever reason.

Try that nex time.

Good luck!


Bluelover

Awesome advice BlueLover! You should setup the Day 2 during the first interaction where you meet. Simply because her "buying" temperature is at it's peak. You have the best chance of getting it then. A number is a means to an end (Day 2) not the end itself. So setup for the day 2 during the intial meeting when you can.

Another thing to keep in mind. Is you might not have had enough comfort built. The reason I say this is because when a woman is attracted to you like she definitely was you can always get a number. The problem then comes when setting a date.

She is attracted to you but she's attracted to a lot of guys out there. Without good comfort built she really doesn't know "who you are" and what you are going to talk about. Sure you're cute and nice, but that isn't much to go on. This will force and awkward date, and she can simply avoid that by not talking to you after the 'ether' of the intial meeting wears off.

Then again, like Bluelover states there could be 100 other things we don't see because we weren't there when it all went down. In the future make sure you get a good 15 minutes of comfort being built, stop the ball busting negs and stuff and just get to know her. Then get the # and go ahead and setup a Day 2 right then. This should help out a lot.

PEACE

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Yeah, you guys are prob right. I really need to build on establishing comfort and setting up the D2. LOL, im sooo now to this whole thing. I think I will refer to the "bible" of the PUA, the MM lol. Thank you for your input.

Oh, and one more thing guys. I was reading the MM and when he talks about flaking, he says to keep calling BUT keep the girl in rotation. What do you guys think about this because to me, it would seem that you reach a limit on how many times you should call a HB. Tell me what you think.

I give them a few calls and if nothing then I stop. There is no need to be that "creepy" guy that won't stop calling every few days.

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