OKay im new to the forum. Not new to pickin up chicks. Just wanted to share this with you guys. Feel free to comment because thats one of the reasons im posting. ANd hopefully im postin in the right spot.


I started talkin to this hb7 online and to make a long story short thru many uh cocky funny type comments mixed with interesting story telling I had her intrigued. So I just threw it out there that we should exchage #'s and that also went smooth. Well we had been text messeging alott and finally decided to meet in person. We had already seen pix of each other. So i knew what i was gettin myself into. We set to meet up at a local place to grab a drink n shoot the shit. Well i had arrived first. So i found a table and bought a drink of my own to occupie myself whilei was waiting. Well as i was returning to my table i managed to spill my effin drink all over myself when someone bumped into me. So i have stains allll over my clothes now!!.lol.. I laughd it off but it still kinna hurt my inner game knowin that my outfit looked like shit now.. Well the hb7 shows up and in all actuality shes a hb8.5 in person! wich made me a bit more nervous on top of things. I dont typically get too nervous but i suppose this time was an exception. Well when she came to the table she looked a bit dissapointed to see me, by the looks of her body language.Maybe she liked the way i looked in the pix better. And she seemed a bit uncomfortable while we were chatting. I was trying to loosen her up but I think i was trying to push the convo a lil bit too much and it may have showed. But we actually chilled and talked for a good amount of time n then we both went on our way.
Well after that i figured that would be the end of it but i was really dissapointed cuzz she was such a hottie. I had sent her a txt messege later that night n we talked for a bit but that was it. Well SHE stays in contact with me ona daily basis(txt messege). Wich i took as a sign she was still interested. But Ive tried to kik it with her twice since n she comes up with excuses not to. Im at the point with this one to just say "look, do you want to hang out again or not?" if its a yes good. If its a no then i can move on n not waste anymore time. But i dont want to screw it up if the chance is still there. How should i finesse this situation?? I know shes got a few dudes trying to get at her. So should i go into asshole mode n see if she comes to me? Maybe make myself a little bit harder to get ahold of?

Sounds like one-itis to me.

You're last sentence is the key point, in my view. That, and it sounds like when you actually met with her you just fluffed, no cocky funny and no real game. I'm guessing the texts are just fluff as well.

I'd suggest weaning the contact down to just one text a week if you plan on doing something. Get your game sorted out, and tell her you and some friends are going out and she can come along if she wants. Something like that.

Anyway, make sure you've planned you're game out, and RUN IT! I know some guys who plan what they'll do, and then freak and get nervous and fumble it all. Make sure you've got a BFD routine ready, just in case.

That's all I can think of anyway.

I was totally c/f at first... thats how i landed her in the first place. . but when i fumbled when we actually chilled, it seemed as if i spent the whole time on the defensive tryna recover that "fumble". So i went "fluff". I have yet to reach out to her n she has yet to reach out to me. Looks like i never actually recovered. lol.


i deff need to put a routine together for the next time i chill with her Because i know she'll get at me again i know ill end up landin her again. But how should i go about my routine?. suggestions? i need to build the attraction again.