| Hmm... So I am on zoosk now thanks to some friends, (its great easy fun) and this girl winks at me. She is actually pretty cute in the photo, a solid seven.
(I consider an 8 to be pretty damn hot, a 9 to be exceptionally beautiful with only a minor flaw(s), and a 10 to actually be as close to perfection as a woman can be, which is exceedingly rare. Think diamonds.)
So she is looking hot and not 30+ with kids (haha you will know if you are on zoosk) so we chat some. Work school blah blah I downplay the fact that I study nanotechnology and change the subject to something more useful. Its christmas time coming so I DHV about how I am making dinner for all my friends who also live far from their families, I light-neg her about being an alcoholic since she is going to three different christmas parties, and I tease her about her busy schedule and how she will never have time for me, so "we might as well give up on a date since she's busy for the next 117 years."
She asks me out on a date.
We are going to meet at a bar (she is not sure where but has an idea, i interupt and throw in my own and it happens to be the same bar) but she gets stuck in the train on the way. She is wondering on sms if I will be able to find her and I tease her that "sure, but she better not be too far down the tunnel or it will be a very short date." I get smileys.
So we meet up and meh, she is not quite as cute as her picture, really only a upper six/lower seven cuz of a funny nose, tho getting drunk would help and her body isnt actually bad at all.
But she turns out to be tons of fun, outgoing, not a boring date at all. We eat dinner in the bar/cafe and I tell some more DHVs (ive got a great bear story that is true, as well as riding my bike 100 miles to see my little sister in the hospital when she had her first baby, etc..) and we basically get to know eachother and make it thru all the attraction hooplah.
It comes up that she loves pool, so great, I think she is fun enough to warrant further progression, and I transition us to a cool pool bar where we play a bunch of games and have some more beers. Here we Kino a bit and she is really warming up and of course im teasing her nonstop and pulling compliance tests etc..
After pool I move us to a more cozy jazz bar with better music, and isolate her at a quiet candlelit table which was actually on the stage. She seemed worried if we should just sit there but of course im AMOG and march right in and take a seat, "dont worry its fine, sit down its a great spot". besides the band is over for the night.
We talk more and I do the cube routine (thanks to this board I finally found it) and she really just melts into my hands at that point.
Now this bar closes and she really wants to go out so I know a small bodega (old-style bar for old people, popular here in denmark) near my flat, but I "warn" her its "a bit out of the way" so of course she wants to get closer to my place and we grab a cab.
We come in and the bartender (real sweet old lady) knows me as well as a few others so its more points for me. Focus all my attention on her now, heavy hand to hand kino, talking real close, at one point I just put my finger under her chin and lift her face and when she turns it up compliantly I kiss her.
Kiss for a while, now its real late and we need to go, so of course she can come to my place, Ive got a couch Ill take (yeah right) and she can have my bed, or my roommate's bed if she's doing a nightshift at the hospital (god you cant make this stuff up), plus its freaking cold and dark outside and she lives far away, and I already know she wants to come over.
So she she does. And we make out real heavy, and there is some LMR but thats usually not a problem for me, and we end up with an F-close even tho we both talked about how we shouldnt on the first date.
Which is actually too bad, cuz although I dont want a solid relationship with her, she was seriously fun and I did want her at some of my parties, and now she is so flipping remorseful that I shagged her on a first semi-blind date, that she just cant bear to see me again. Or else "I will just end up doing the same thing over again, I have no idea how it happened but I just know it will happen again, sorry."
Haha, so yeah, there you have it. Funny stuff, and its true about not rushing into things if you actually want them to stick around some.
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