I sent a girl and e-mail on one of these online dating sites and shes like a 10/10 Indian Girl - who are quite hard to sort out at all in the UK if I say so myself. I am indian too - though it dont really matter..

Now she actually responded saying how much she liked my cool profile and enjoyed reading it blah blah blah but how shes not my type and I quote..."....you seem like a romantic and although I love a little romance its not really something that is very important or attractive to me (believe it or not!). I hope you find the woman of your dreams this dating thing ain't that easy!!..."

I used Dave M's online dating stuff to write my profile and its pretty good stuff but seems to have given her the wrong idea.

any tips on wording I can email her back with to try and get her to continue this dialogue without coming across the wrong way i.e. desperate..

If she werent up for it why email me in the first place?? And is she implying she just wants sex??

Any help appreciated - cheers fellas in advance!!

Aikido.

My response:

Finding the girl of my dreams is damn near impossible (my standards are pretty high, lol), but i appreciate your honesty...that's a difficult trait to find these days. cya around.

I used the honesty trait comment to bait her into talking (or emailing in this case). If it works, that would give me an opportunity to game her with a little C&F. But if it doesn't work, I would simply move on and forget her.
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You may want to redo your profile if it's communicating the wrong message.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene

OK buddy - many thanks will try that and see if it works

I thought shemay have misread part of the profile - maybe took Dave's profile advice to heart too literally - need to adjust it - thanks for the tips..

Will fill you in when she replys again

Later man.
Aikido

I don't like this response. Yeah, it conveys standards etc... but it basically confirms her assessment of him.

You need a way to say you're not this guy she thought you were, without trying to sound like you're looking to validate yourself.

A good example might be like...

"lol! that's so funny you said that, I left my last ex for the same reasons. I just want to have fun one day at a time, and she was really into this fairy tale life of romanticism, which to me is just kind of boring. lol. Beautiful girl though, found her a guy that she fits with a little better. You sound like you've had the same problems, lol."

*I love love love ending with questions that aren't really questions. Great way to provoke a response. End with a positive *(but not needy) assumption about someone, and watch how they respond. Plays to their ego. They will almost always message you back looking to validate themselves.