Ok, Ill try to keep the situation short. I would like to have your opinion on how I should aboard the next days.

I met this girl through my roomate, which is one of her best friends, 2 months ago. I knew she liked me and we flirted when she'd come to our house. I didn't make a move since I didn't want to piss my roomate off by only sleeping with her.

The problem is that I started feeling something for her. Last week, we went out (with a group of friends) and she passed the entire night with me and she clearly told me that she wanted to sleep with me.

We came back to my place and we went to bed. We started kissing for like 10 mins and she suddenly stopped and said that "We can't". I backed off but five minutes later, the kissing started again but she intterupted it again pretending that she was in her period and that the things couldn't go further (which didn't really care to me). I gave up and we just slept. She left in the morning and I haven't talked to her for 1 week.

My roomate told me that she was already seeing another guy and that she didn't want to come up as a slut but she admitted that she was attracted by me.

I'm going to see her this weekend and I want to know how you guys think that I should act when I'll be with her if I want to raise the attraction level to a point where she will only forget about the other dude and fall for me?

Should I play it just like if she had a boyfriend or do some push and pull thing or maybe just act distant to let her know that I'm a little pissed off (after all, she lied to me).

I think you made a mistake by not being completely cool with the fact that you didn't have sex with her. You should've been extra charming with her in the morning, you might've scored then. And you should've talked to her during the day or the next.

But now that the mistake has been done, this is what I think you should do. Forget the incident, forget the other guy. They don't matter. Be on top of your game, and be C&F to everyone. Make her forget about the incident, since you clearly have. Since you don't care that she has a boyfriend (if she even has one, could be just a form of ASD to keep you away), you don't even take it into concideration about how you should game her. Just go and be great. She can't resist that. Be alpha and lead her to where you want to take her.

You're right. I should have showed her that I was totally cool with the fact that we didn't have sex. I knew I should have talked to her more the next morning but she didn't seem very receptive.

Anyway, since the mistake is done, I'll follow your tips. I'll forget about the incident and be on top of my game. I'll keep things fun and simple to make her feel like it was before.

Thanks a lot, it's exactly the kind of advice I needed!

Yep, just ASSUME that it is a done deal. Forget about her back story and what happened last weekend, just keep escalating and be playful...

MAKE IT HAPPEN!

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