Hi all

This is my first post and im a bit new to all of this so go easy

Basically I have a major issue with hesitation and it is killing my game. I see girls I like, get good IOI's and just seem to pause, mull, even roam around the target and then the chance is gone. I can approach but I always delay and my value drops, if I see the girl again later in the night she just doesnt want to know. Last night, prime example - saw a cutie 8 on the dancefloor, she actually blew me a kiss and beckoned me over and I DID NOTHING!!!! aHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH. Just typing about it makes me feel like a complete tool.

How did you guys get past this? Is there a particular mental frame you get into or something you can tell yourself to make it easier? I know all about the three second rule but im finding it easier said that done.

Also, does anyone know of any good lines to open on the dance floor? I know you cant really game there, but a funny, introductory type line would really help me.

Cheers

Read this, it should help. approach-anticipation-excitement-vt35880.html

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

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Cheers for that Rye ill have a read.

Any one got any killer lines to use on the dance floor?

the hesitation thing your just gonna have to learn to deal with it, like mystery said "i even still have approach anxiety but i learn to deal with it". come on now whats the honest worst that can happen? "no" OMG that hurt so bad you know? and as of dance floor lines, im not really a dance person so i wouldnt know that much but if she blew you a kiss thats a pritty good invitation for a little bump and grind.

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