"Whenever you do a thing, though it can never be known but to yourself, ask yourself how you would act were all the world looking at you, and act accordingly."
Thomas Jefferson (April 13, 1743 – July 4, 1826)

As a man- as long as you have a drip of Testosterone pumping through your body- you will always have a slight desire to sleep with every attractive woman you see!

Even priests struggle with this just a well as men that have been faithfully married for 20 years!

The fortitude not to act on this desire is what separates them from the average man-whore.

"No amount of pointless pussy can ever compete with the love of a good woman". One of my all-time favorite quotes

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Ace

Great point! How would you feel if your first gf cheated on you? It seems like you are feeling a little invincible right now, but remember that can change any moment. What if you break up with her to be with other girls and the flood of girls that were giving you attention don't anymore...how would you feel then? Maybe the fact that you are in a relationship is part of the reason these girls like you...people always want what they can't have. If you don't want to be tied down then break up with her, but don't cheat on her. Don't make her your back up girl...no one wants to be the back up plan.

Sounds like you're looking for a justification or some encouragement to cheat, which makes me think that you're going to do it anyway. While I'll agree that we're not biologically wired for monogamy, we're still socially programmed for it. You're sitting smack in the middle of the conflict between the two. It's a tough spot to be in, and only you can make the decision, but do some seeeeerious thinking about it first:

Running game on girls at a bar is far different than playing games with your girlfriend. One deals with strangers who are playing the game just as much as you are, in a weird little courtship dance we've developed. The other deals with closely held emotions, and a bond between people.

Remember that the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Part of the reason you have so many opportunities to cheat is that you're flirting for the sake of flirting. You've got your girl at home, and you've got no urgent need to pick any of these women up. It's the ultimate push-pull. You're flirting, but you don't want her, which forces her to be more forward. If you were single again, the situation would change, and it wouldn't seem so easy.

My personal advice is to take the time, attention and "fire" that you're spending on PU, and send that your girlfriend's way.

Is it okay to murder someone if no one ever finds out? Puh-leeze.

Sutko- Well put- I couldn't have said that any better!

Cranberry- sorry to hear that your spirits are low & I think that you will learn and grow from this. If it doesn't kill you it will only make you stronger. Best of luck.