Hey guys, so heres the deal.....

im into this girl its been about 4-5 months and i really like this one... and

she asked me: Are there other girls in your life?.....

i told her: "why do you want to learn how to pickup other girls?....

she said: im upset that you can say you love someone and still see other people. Thats not what i had in mind, but i can learn to deal with it if thats what you really want... Im just upset."

she said: so can you tell me how you feel about this?


I DONT KNNOW WHAT TO SAYYYYYYY cause i wanna keep her around right... i dont wanna say something thatll make me look like a total wussbag

Be honest with her... it might give you the wrong result but its always best to be honest.

Just be honest. If she asks if there are any other girls in your live. Simply say 'yeah, why are you asking?'

The problem here is that u told her u loved her.

To large percentage of the world true love , means beeing with 1 and only 1 person. Its ok to see other ppl when u find her interesting , fun to be with , special ... but dont tell her u love her.

Or when u absolutely do want to say u love her (and see other ppl) then have to balls to be straight with her, when she calls u out on it.

keruli

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Never let failure get the best of your creativity !

I'll be an honest. Im really an open person, it's what makes my personality. It's what allowed me to meet you. Taking this away will change who I am. Now can we say this is for the better or worse, I don't know, but if you loved me you wouldn't ask me to change who am I. You know you mean alot to me.


i dont know if something like this would work, your taking honesty and just manipulating it to work for you, rather than against you.

Well you didn't say what your issue with this question is. Are you seeing other women? If so, what are the circumstances?

Unless you've got a lifestyle that you want to keep and you know how that lifestyle is, you don't really have any idea what to say to her. Blanket statements are rarely effective.

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i would just be honest with her and if there are other girls let her know that you stop for her and if not then you have nothing to worry about..

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