What I've noticed from the PUA tactics is that you should feel like your the shit and should be the prize. Like I read in "the game" that some guy pictured and felt himself as he was 1000ft tall and made of diamonds, and it made him feel like he's the ish. Or make girls buy YOU things, like drinks etc... Like that "5 lies" game by Style, if the girl buys you a drink, doesn't that make you look cheap? Like should we still be nice and open doors, being polite, buy them things, offer to provide etc...?

And how about all the tricks like "esp reading", "the cube", "3 adjectives", "ring routine", "trust test", "evolution phase shift" etc..., how do we root it? Like, I tried "the cube" and "3 adjectives" to a girl, not in the club, and she said i should be her psychiatrist or something lol. But what if they ask you how you know all this, and most other guys that aren't PUAs always have that "wtf your a fag" thing going on when they see this stuff, some...

if you run just one cute gambit, you can say that last week a girl did the this to you and you thought it was awesome

if you're running all of these....then...don't. try to work on non-routines but concepts instead. practice multiple threading, dhving, qualifying etc

what is the "three adjectives"?

yeah ive been searching most of those cool tricks like the cube etc b/c its fun. but like how do you dhv? and qualify? i've learned some cool kiss closes, but what are some good ways to build kino? like do you think holding hands is a good way to build kino when playing the cube?

and the 3 adjectives is when you tell them to choose a color, describe it with 3 adjectives. then tell them to do that with an animal, a body of water, and being in a room with no windows and no doors. then tell them that the color represents yourself, the animal is your friends, water is your sex life and the room is about death. ;D

maybe im asking too much questions... but how about dates? whats a good pua style type of date. b/c i read somewhere that bringing a girl to a regular movie and dinner whatnot date wont build attraction, but just make you a "provider" in her eyes. Same with going to the mall etc... So whats a good way to date without being a "provider" and building "attraction" without looking like a cheap-skake.

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These concepts aren't conflicting. Being chivalrous makes you more of a prize because it's a desireable trait in a man. You just need to know how to moderate it so that you aren't bending over backwards for her all the time and devaluing yourself by being too eager to please.

I open doors for girls, I don't know if I'd open a car door, but perhaps. I'll pull out her chair if we're somewhere nice. Various other chivalrous things are shown in my manner as well and they tend to make women blush and act like little girls eager for my attention.

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cool. thanks.

btw, i just got my right ear pierced to go along with my already pierced left. but my right earring is different from my left. my left is bigger and my right is smaller b/c they're different studs. and i cant do anything about it b/c my right side has to heal for 6 weeks.

whats a good cocky/funny line or whatever if someone points out that my earings don't match, or that my right side is smaller then my left?

thanks!

I honestly wouldn't expect them to and the fact that you're confident in yourself will stop people from making any negative comments aimed at you. If by some incredibly strange twist of fate someone does make a comment, then I would just act confused because it's such a weird thing for someone to comment about. If absolutely pressed to come up with a reason (which would never happen and I know because I've been in your situation and brought it up myself many times) you just explain that you need to wait for it to heal.

Honestly most poeple are so concerned with their own lives that they don't have any time to worry about making fun of you.

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

firstly, dont run all your gambits in one go... spread them out over a long time and over different people. if someone asks you about them, say you read about it in some book or one of your friends is a psych major and she taught you a few tricks etc.. your answer doesnt really matter. the bottom line is that you know things they dont, which makes you interesting.

as for opening doors etc, it's considered good manners. it shows that you treat women with respect and sets you apart from the rest of the guys she knows.
i always do what i can, without blatantly going out of my way of course.
girls really appreciate this, as Rye Lee already pointed out.