| Ok, this is just me taking a crack on giving positive advice to high school kids.
I remember what it was like, when all you can think about it sex, your hormones are raging beyond your control and you feel there is just nothing you can do about.
Your probably having wild sexual fantasy's, and scuttle fantassys like walking down a beach with a girl or holding hands down the halls, theres no way to get rid of these fantassys, but you can tame them, focus more the scuttle fantasy, their more likely to happan, plus its good not to imagine super domincince with a girl, you got to take on the image of someone who dosnent need to know the anwer,
every one experinces sex at their own pace, just becouse your friends are doing or everyone schools doing it dosent mean you've missed out. Those kind of things are more likely to come when you least expect it.
Lets say you've met a girl, you have this awsome conection with her, its like butterflys in your stomach, that sort of thing, when you feel this way, take slow, don't over welm her, let things work them selves out,
Or lets say theirs a girl in your life, that notices you, she says hi to you on a daily basis, she seems to like you, but you don't know how to make that conection with her, some corny openers, that might not sound like they'll work, but they will, such as, "I want to tell you that I really like your look" or, "I need your opinon on something". I
In your speech try not to convey neediness and self doubt, this can be hard when your young and unexperinced, but when your talking to a girl, just tell her how you veiw her and she will become that person for you, but only if shes flattered by it and agrees with it.
And last but not least, when your in high school, the way you express yourself, will dictate how and when you will meet and make conections with people, don't be afraid to express yourself,
wear shirts of favorite band, or of your favorite video game (this may seem like bad advice, but it todays SPAM, video games have gone so main stream, I once knew a girl who met her boyfriend at a halo tornement) If you play any sport, if your snow boarder (which these days most kids are) or skate board, be expressive about that.
now if your one of those kind of nerds who into weird things, like model plane making or collecting random things, not that its bad to have different interest then everyone else, its just that it may be harder to express yourself in positive way.
There are not chances to fail, just opportunities to learn. It may seem impossible finding a partner in life is impossible, but its not, focus on the positive things in life, and eventually things will play in your favor.
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CHAT