I'm not bad in the sack, but I want to be able to carry the confidence of knowing that I am awesome in bed. I'm trying to come up with a plan of action to achieve this.

What are some resources, tips, or strategies that you would recommend for building strong overall ability?

Get married. She'll quit bitching when you are doing right.

Seriously, Masters & Johnson's books teach a lot. Any book that approaches sex scientifically will help you understand the physical aspect. The rest is yo attitude. If you learn to love it, you will know exactly what to do and desire to do it. Just like PUA Do.

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Hi look under my posts re "Introduce yourself" where I got into a chat with a guy about how girl's can tell if a guy's good in bed.

Looks you've good the confidence which is a great start.

one thing to always keep in mind, everyone woman is different, what one woman likes another may hate.

I had a girlfriend recently who loved to have me suck on her hip bones, it just drove her nuts, she also disliked clitoral stimulation and liked to be choked.

A girl before her loved clitoral stimulation and loved anal play.

Every woman has something unique and wonderful to explore, you have to be honest with her and truthfull and let her know it's okay for her to tell you what she wants. Once you get over that hump, you're ready to do new things and make her just as happy as she's going to make you.

Remember, a woman is a partner, you are having sex together, work with her and she will with you, and also keep in mind the first time is always going to be a little awkward, you're getting to know each other in new ways! That's what's beautiful about it.