Dude I was In the cinema today and was depratly wanting to sit next to my phitt hb friend , she told my mate that she didn't want to sit near me. I've being told in my other field report she's interested . I couldn't build up kino or comfort, what should I do?

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Cinema's the worst possible place you could go for a first date or for sarging purposes. You can't sarge in a cinema because you can't talk, move around or mingle. You can't go on a first date there because there's too much tension between you both sitting in silence. Cinema's only good for fooling around in the back row with an established gf.

I have to disagree with you speed bird. For me personally the cinema is the one place Ive had a 98% success rate at. I honestly couldnt recall how many girls Ive hooked up with at the cinema. Ive even got head jobs a couple of times on first dates to the cinema. The beauty of the cinema is you dont have the awkwardness of having to think of witty things to say, the date relies almost entirely on body language. I know I know its a cheesy date and its a first date I generally only go on if Im not overly interested in the girl. But if you want an easy hook up its great.

Something I really love about the cinema is because your sitting so close to each other its a really easy place to do complience tests. Whispering into her ear is generally the first one. Every time something funny or thought provoking happens in the movie, move in and make a comment right in her ear. It gets her used to having you up close and personal in her face. It can also commonly result in your faces "accidently" ending up face to face when she replies to you and you end up kissing. Also you can neg her by trying to steel the arm rest for yourself and then you can end up "compramising" and share it hand in hand. thats a great way to start kino.



Back to the original question though, thats tough. If your not sitting next to the girl during the movie theirs not much you can do aside from maybe try negging her with popcorn. But nothing exciting is going to happen untill after the movie. thats when you make your move

After reading JamieP's post that actually sounds pretty good. All I did was one time when i was in the cinema (it was the movie twilight) I sat down and acted like I was completely oblivious and I told this HB7 beside me "Hey i hear this movie is about vampires, if i grab your leg im sorry, that just means im a little startled :]" And she laughed and said "chances are I'll be grabbing your leg"

BUT

we didn't talk at all during the movie (obviously). And at the end of the movie we just talked until everyone was out of the theater other than her and her friend (HB9 [ive got a story to tell later about her**] ) and ended up getting her number before they left



**About the HB9, I introduced myself to her after the movie at the cinema and she goes "I already know you [my name]!" and i was like WHAAAA and she said "yeah remember... like a week ago?" and then i remembered and said "Ohhhh the girl with the tattoo behind her ear, yeah yeah!" I felt like such a dumbass

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manna, it sounds like you played it pretty well during the movie and waiting untill after it finished to really esculate a conversation. Women are obsessed with twilight, the books and the movie! thats one movie your going to struggle hooking up in because they really want to watch the movie. sex and the city is another no go zone movie to hook up in BUT its a great movie to watch and then go for a coffee and talk about. It could even lead to her telling you a few sex n the city stories of her own providing you have the patience to play it out propperly.

The best movies for a cinema hook up are the obveous A. Scary movies (great excuse to give them hugs when their scared, grab their hand when their scared or use begin kino with what I call a "kino neg" like just when the movies getting scary squeeze her leg and scare the shit out of her which will generally result in her hitting you which is a good thing!) or B. the less obveous choice but just as reliable for a hook up.... THE BORING MOVIE! The boring movie is a great place to hook up. The two of you are sitting there in absalute boredom so what better way to kill time right?

You did something to turn her off. GFTOW

like someone here said, i would just throw popcorn at her and be obnoxious. lol and climb all over the seats and be like a 5 year old trying to get her attention. then i would hit on random girls to make her jealous, but i would make her be my wing.

I like cinemas, mainly because for me they often result in lots of kino. I like the whispering idea too.
If she has the arm rest, whisper "Oi, this is my arm rest" and put your arm on hers. Do a hand squeeze. Move your arm under hers, see what she does. From there it's not too hard to move your hand/arm onto her leg either I've found.

man, when I was an AFC, I'd use the cinema as a dating venue as it was the easiest one to come up with that most people are comfortable with going to.

Since learning the game, I'd crossed out the cinema on my list of 1st date venues, but you've just made me write it back on there. In fact, I don't know why I ever crossed it off, I've had my own amazing experience in a cinema with an ex, and will never forget it . I just saw the cienma has a place where there was little to no opportunity to converse, but I forgot all about those kino opportunities, cheers JamieP, next first date with a girl who is comfortable with the kino is the cinema for me, will FR back.