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right now, she expects me to tell her to break up with him and get with me. i need to play it cool like i dont really have anything to gain from this situation. what should i reply to "i need you to help me out please. my boyfriend is acting different now and i know you're an expert on relationships"
bring in the C/F.
"Ah well as an expert I think you 2 should take some salsa dancing lessons together"
"Well me and [bf's name] were talking and he said you never: hold the door for him (or) make him feel like a real woman (or) you don't cuddle enough.
Definitely side with the BF at first, then phase shift and tell her you're there for her if she needs to talk in person (or) Let me cheer you up lets go hang out etc. But her radar is hot and you will need to come in under it, this is key.