My girl is having a party for new years and her ex of one year will be there with a few friends. I'm not to worried but I'm just curious on your guy's view on how to deal with it. I have not met him or heard much about him and if hes drinking some things could get out of hand. What are some good ways to handle aggression or possible poaching guys? I don't want to seem like an asshole or idiot and can keep my cool easily but I am a bit unclear as to when lines can be considered crossed besides obvious ones. She has a lot of guy friends and I deal with that fine but I'm a bit concerned about this. Thanks for the help.

Don`t worry to much. There is a reason why she`s not with him and is with you and just be relaxed and cool like nothing special is going on. Also, if worried about him being agressive, take care of your body language. Try to look secure, dominant, relaxed. Don`t be edgy, scare or insecure. Stand tall, take your space, don`t get angry if he tries to pick a fight. For any case, it would be good that some of your friends is also on that party. Its potentailly problematical if you are there alone, without backup and he`s with few friends. That fact can boost his confidence and level of agression.

If thats the case and you know that he has bad temper, maybe you should think about changing your plans for another party (and your girlfriend too, of course).

But if you go to a party, and it escalates to violence, if you don`t have any chance to stop it on time, the best way to stop the bully is you own explosion of agression, scare the motherfucker

Never hit with wide haymakers cause if you are not in training, you will rapidly loose your stamina. Hit your opponent with fast jab/cross combo and aim for nose or chin. Then after calming down the first attack, take your girlfriend and go away, fast. Don`t run, but get away fast. After he/them recuperate after first shock, they might attack again and you won`t have help od surprise moment.



Here, there is the worst scenario but I think everything will go just fine and without agression.

Take care buddy and write a report how it went the day after!

Marco

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Thanks for that its a big help as well as the fight tips . None of my friends are going because its her actual party but i know some people there and am not really scared of him are his backup or anything. If he did start something I'm sure it would just dlv him for being an aggressive asshole and I am not small in any sense of the word so I'm not to worried about him starting something. I'm more worried about him or his friends poaching my girl and how to deal with situations like that. Do I roll with it or tell them to back off? Thanks for the help I appreciate it.

Well, thats even easier situation. If you see them poaching your girl, yust aproach her, hug her and give her looong and extremly hot kiss. They will stood there for a second, feel like a bunch of chumps and go away feeling like a dork loosers

Just be alpha!

Enjoy your party my friend!

Marco

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Alright thats pretty much solved everything for me. Thanks for the help man and i will enjoy it. Happy New Year!

If one of your values is not fighting, I suggest you express that clearly to him infront of your girlfriend. If he hits you, then you take it and scoff it off. There is nothing more that turns a girl on than AMOG'ing a guy with your powerful words when he is ready to start a fight.

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So, how it went?

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