I found out a week ago or so... that girls arent monsters....

But I still cant put that in my head.... I went out with a couple friends where one was a natrual. He has a GF and knows nothing about the game but he has insane natrual game. We went to the mall to find me a " gf". I couldnt apporaoch but when I did, I C&B bad that day.

We went into one of the stores and there was gorgeous girls everywhere. AA kept coming to me. But then he apporached every girl. This HB9 that you can tell was a snotty bitch.. like one of those girls who like being a bitch to us lower guys or w.e. He had her laughing and talking in mere seconds. He wasnt afriad to embarass himself... and I dont understand how is this possible. At one point I said something really retarted that made me look wierd that one of the passing girls gave me a weird look.

But then we went passed her and he goes " See she thinks your weird" and I said " you think Im weird? This girl was smiling and saying no flirting back.... this 8 was investing herself into the convo IOI but I didnt take it nowhere. the rest of the day he approached every girl. At one point I was walking and saw this really hot 9 in the store so much that i was dumbfounded and wasnt watching where I was going. I ran into a kid and his father. My friend coudltn stop laughing and said watch, went into th store and got her number.

I dont udnerstand how to get rid of this social anxiety its really kiling me ughh...

3 second rule. you have to realise that "failing" is just learning. one night i was in a club and i got completely shot down by the first girl i opened, and i just turned to my friends and laughed. for the rest of the night i was unstoppable, because i knew that the worst had already happened and it wasnt that bad.

who cares if you first few sets crash and burn, and they think you are weird. just laugh it off with your friend and then open another set

are you friends with girls?

if not, you're missing out. TALK to them without an agenda. when you talk to, and listen to, a woman without trying to pick her up, you get the idea clearly that she's human exactly like you.

there is no difference between men and women. we are the same stuff, arranged differently. the more you focus on trying to pick her up, the more you separate yourself from her and create the illusion that she is somehow different/better/worse.

she's a human being. she laughs, farts, eats, walks, does laundry, kills time surfing the web, dreams, pees, smiles, stumbles, runs out of things to say, and all the other things that all humans do.

she gets nervous. she has insecurities. she wants to be loved for exactly who she is and have someone see what's always been cool about her without her having to show off or put up a front.

she's just like you. but prettier, thank god.

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"War is not the answer. Love is."