Ok I am kind of at a loss here. Quick run down. I meet girl, I open, dhv, get numbner, been talking to her for about 2 weeks, been on multiple dates but feel like I'm in the friend zone. There is attraction, kino, bla bla bla. Here is my sticking point. Kiss Close. She show interest in me but seems to shy away when I bring it up. She shows a shit ton of IOIs, like she said she likes being single and just dating around but now she is just seeing me. She leaves me a text at 6 AM wishing me a good day when I am just waking up to go to work. I dont have any other female friends that do that. I show active disinterest, then compliment her on something. Push Pull. WTF am I supposed to do next? I am thinking I need to make that inner connection with her. Please Help an AFC out here.

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To be old and wise we must first be young and stupid!

It's been a couple of weeks?! Not good, but you should be able to turn it around. 3 routines sould help you here:
1. Triangular gazing
2. Evolutionary Phaze Shift ( I LOVE THIS MOVE!!!!)
3. Mytery's kiss close "Do you wanna kiss me?"

Now the secret with the last one is that you can't let her shy away. She says yes and you kiss her. She says no and you tease her and say she can't anyhow ( and at this point you're probably LJBFed if that's the case) But if she doesn't say anything you go caveman and just do it! It's that simple. Don't let her shy away. Control that frame!

In the future remember the 7 hours rule

If anyone else has any good Kiss closes post em also.

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Love is the Irresistalbe Desire to be Irresistably Desired.- Robert Frost

Making love is getting pleasue from giving it.- Jonathan Gaige

I tried Mysteries kiss close and I had to pull the ejection handle and tell her she couldn't. There is still a lot of kino but I think I may try the evolutionary phase shift. That should be a winner.

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To be old and wise we must first be young and stupid!

What was it that went wrong with the first kiss close?

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Love is the Irresistalbe Desire to be Irresistably Desired.- Robert Frost

Making love is getting pleasue from giving it.- Jonathan Gaige

Make her jealous. Go find another girl and tell her about it.. worst case, you get the other girl. You're the prize, remember?

- Dex

M8 this is the same girl from the other post right? I thought I posted there but evidently the post didnt work...

Your fault when doing mysterys k-close was that you had the hand on the ejection handle when you did it. Things like that make you look shy, nervous etc. And thus if she is shy already she will chicken out. Thing is ,, she didnt even chicken out, she got nervous and said something about your shirt.. thats a YES!!!!! You are creating obstacles that arent existing ..

When you feel the emotions starting to steer, just do the gaze and go caveman. A shy girl needs a firm hand, and as long as you feel the tention, nothing can go wrong since,, well the tention is there.

GL, do continue to wright here when you succeded

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Alright, I will share with you the way I beat LJBF... with my friend (who hovers right near an 8.5-9).

She came to visit me in my new apartment a few weeks ago and she planned on staying over. My bed in huge (King sized) so I innocently asked if she just wanted to share the bed since it is so big and that would save her from the couch. Since we are such good friends, she said yes without any hesitation. The entire night was set with huge amounts of kino, which I kicked off the second she walked in the door.

In order to make the night more fun, since we couldn't go out, I had a group of people come over to my place and had a small party. I made sure to demonstrate to my guy friends that she is my target and off limits to them. So, we had some drinks, made sure she was on my team for the drinking games, and then after a while we just chilled. We stopped drinking for a while and proceeded to go to bed where we talked for a while about random stuff, friend stuff, etc. After some playful talk, to raise the mood because I was getting tired, I decided to tickle her because I knew she was very ticklish. This was apparently just the excuse she needed. She started wrestling me and I had her pinned down with her arms pinned up above her head- an extremely sexual position...

HB- What are you thinking right now?
Apollo- The same thing you are.
HB- What is that?
Apollo- Kisses her

From there the night was made. Looking back, the biggest reason that the night turned like that is because I kicked things off as soon as she walked in the door with playful negs and kino. I didn't hesitate anything and didn't show any fear of the "friends territory". As long as you have a plan and confidence, any territory or shield can be broken.

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nice post, totally agree with u apollo