For those of you who haven't read the "Ask Rafiel" thread, the guy feels threatened because I offer help to people with questions. Apparently he feels this is a dick swinging contest or something as opposed to a place where guys can come for help, ask questions in a way that allows a variety of people to gie input. I can think of no better way to learn. Anyhow, this, along with other things, has caused me to consider leaving this forum as the quality of posters really seems to be going downhill quickly.

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I apologise, I don't wish to argue or cause any resentment. I take all blame.

Don't take this the wrong way, but you have a lot of inner work to do and I sincerely hope you do it.

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Grow up russianbear. Rafiel is an established and successful NLP practicioner and as such has been given a sticky thread by the mods to share his insights. He has the right to defend his turf and defend against you trying to hijack the thread by answering the questions posted.

Rafiel is trying to be the bigger man here, but it seems you obviously have not truly integrated the depth of NLP, as you have allowed a simple post from a stranger to cause such negative emotions in you. If people want a general opinion they would start a new thread. If you want to make a haven to give your advice, then make one yourself. I hope both of you stay because you are quite knowledgeable, but you should start acting more mature.

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He feels threatened because you hijacked his thread, which is a violation of the forum rules. Check your PM box for my warning.

seriously guys . let it go . whats up with all these warnings/ threats / hijacking attempts .. lol. chill out.

Really, an established and insightful NLPer? He doesn't even know what "posthypnotic suggestions" are. Really basic stuff. Moreover, he completely misrepresents Ross Jeffries. I find that odd. He also makes mistakes with other basic NLP concents, such as anchors.

Got this nice message from Chief:
"This is an official warning for your violation of forum rule #8. You hijacked a thread intended for a different purpose than for the direction in which you are steering it. Helping others is important, but so is doing so in an organized fashion for a forum environment.

This is also an additional warning for your violation of forum rule #2. If you cannot cease flaming, further action will be taken immediately.

If we discover that this has been a repeat offense from a second account (if you broke the rules on an older, banned account), your IP address will be banned from our server and you will not be able to return to our forum community."

Take your warning and shove it up your ass. I hijacked a thread? No, I answered a poster's question and Mr. Gamble seemed to have a problem with me helping someone. If helping others further themselves in the game, then this forum is seriously in peril.
I cannot flame. So, what your saying is it's cool for others to attack me, but I cannot respond. Hypocrite.

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"There is no greater pleasure than to kick a girl out of your bed when it is no longer clear who is fucking who."