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PostPosted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 4:15 pm 
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A couple of weeks a go I number closed a beer tub girl (I have a thing for hired girls). She's probably a hb8.5. One possible problem could come up is that I'm only 21 and she's 29. Also, I have texted her a handful of times to do something and every time she says she is busy with work or moving or something. Normally I would just move on and consider this a lost cause. But one time she called me after I texted her, apologized and said we will definitely go out soon.

My two questions are:
What should I say if she mentions the age difference?

and secondly,

How do I go about getting a second meeting without appearing desperate?
(any good text game advice would be great)

Thanks for your help,
B-Man


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But one time she called me after I texted her, apologized and said we will definitely go out soon.
Haha...are you a baby and she the mother telling you what to do? That's what it sounds like. Come on man, control the frame, put the ball in your court, convey that you are a busy man and that you have standards. "We will definately go out soon" - will we? How does she know? Does she control you? Is she worth the time and effort?" That's what you should be conveying at this stage.
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What should I say if she mentions the age difference?
It will most likely come as a shit test. Just be natural and say anything that neutralises the situation and show that that is not an issue. I can't give you a specific response because it depends upon the specific statement or question. Better still, you could mention it before her. I always try to deal with LMR BEFORE it happens, so you can do that with this. Just mention older girls in passing and state how you're totally cool with that. Don't have to do anything fancy.

A favourite of mine though, is:

HB: "You're too young for me."
PUA: "You're right, I want to kiss you slowly all over but you're just too old. But you're young inside, right?"

Then she starts qualifying, and you disarm the situation. You almost always have to agree with her first statement, disagreeing will kill it. The fact that you just disqualified her also gives you unspoken permission to be really direct (although you still have to calibrate this).
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How do I go about getting a second meeting without appearing desperate?
(any good text game advice would be great
)

To be honest you've probably killed it, but best thing to do in my opinion is to text her saying you're really busy next few days so you can't go out and apologise. Reverse the frame. Then call her maybe a week later (CALL NOT TEXT) and chat with her, sarge her over the phone. The mistake most guys make is that they immediately try to set up a day 2 over the phone or text. But you have NO CONTROL OVER HER MOOD OR ANYTHING. And if you're changing her mood not her mind, you're not going to be very successful are you?

So talk to her over the phone, make her like you, then pitch it. Remember, a girl WILL go out with you if you have enough value. Texting in creative ways with different tactics WON'T WORK if you don't have value. So up your value by calling her, freezing her out etc then try again, but pitch it as if you are giving her permission to come into your great life, not the other way.

Hope that helps mate.


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