Alright so I've met some random girls on myspace from my area, all live about 45 minutes away..talked to them for awhile about stupid stuff and they always hint and say stuff about hanging out, I've got there numbers and text sometimes, one girl we talk on the phone quite a bit.

Now I need help with hanging out, I dont want to seem like this cool guy online, then suck in person and ruion it. I'm pretty shy when I first meet people, never really know what to talk about and it's kind of akward, once I get to know someone I joke around, am decently outgoing and fun..but really shy at first. So just wondering what I should do for the 1st time hanging out and how to not let it go into a friend zone thing, because I'm not sure if these girls like me as friends or if they want to hang out because they like me and what should we do...movie, ice skating or what?

these girls are 8 or 9's if that matters so they obviously get a lot of guys hitting on them and stuff,

I'm not a pro at this but heres my advice for what its worth... hopefully a pro will read and add to as necessary.. for the record though... I'm pretty good at interacting with women once I have picked them up... pick up has always been my problem.

I would definately try to have them come to your hometown and plan the date out in detail. Where you will go, how long you will stay, who will pay, etc... and discuss it with the appropraite girl. But take them somewhere you are comfortable at, like your favorite resteraunt or coffee shop. Have some stories already to share with her. If you run out of things to say you can always talk about her DHA (dreams, hopes, and aspirations) Don't stay too long cuz the convo will surely die down. Throw in some kino routines at the table, cube, palm reading etc. Then take her somewhere women love like aquarium, zoo, museum, etc. Leave her for a bit in that place (just walk away slightly) and then come back all excited, grab her hand and say you have to come see this (fish, monkey, painting) it is so amazing. Make the amazing thing something hard to find this way you can step up behind her and look over her shoulder and point it out to her. Put your other arm around her waist as if you are hugging like so many couples who are comfortable do together. You can comment on how her hair smells and then maybe even neg her that she has wax in her ear or something.. anyway.. hope this helps a little bro.. take care...

Don't overthink things... that's one tip i would give

Ya, that is a good point, but whatever you do, just be chill, and have fun.

be instantly touching and good energy

then get sexual to avoid friendzone, try kino routines

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I'm a good hockey player so I was thinking go to an ice rink and I'll teach her how to skate and like hold her hand so she doesnt fall and stuff that way it gets touching involved

oh yeh, id love to be able to skate good, that would such be an awesome place to date

and if you both fall on over each other you can laugh if off then suddnely kiss her in the middle of rink movie romantic style

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I am sort of the same way, shy at first and not too talkative, but you cant shut me up later. I find it pretty good if you invite them over to watch a movie. You get to be close, in the dark. She will talk if she wants to (which they almost always do during the movie). You can gauge IOI's from there and go in for the kill. It usually works for me