This is a short one but something I was thinking about last night.
When I began going for closes I would get the number then quickly make my excuses and leave, then I noticed having a number means almost nothing, especially when you collect lots with no intention of calling them.

So, I began going out with no mobile, this sounds like a bad idea but the results I started getting were great, instead of 11 digits I was getting k-closes. This got me to thinking, how many k-closes had I messed up by focusing on the number.

It is like running a race n-close being the bronze and full close being the gold, if you run a race planning to come third chances are you won't even do that.

So aim high and don't ask for her number until either right at the end of the interaction on simply let her suggest giving it to you.

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Yeah when I started out I did the same thing. It also hit me back then when I was getting pretty much any chick's number in under 10 mins, that most of those numbers were flakes.

Since then I never #close until after a k-close or f-close, unless the situation is impossible like on a bus. I rarely use phones whilst sarging.

I think the best adage for this is "make the ho say no". I believe it was Gunwitch who said that.