O.K. here is the situation. I met up with a girl that was a freshmen was I was a senior in high school. I met her through another friend, she happened to be with her this winter break. That same night I used negs to lure her in and I tried to demonstrate DHV wihile we were at Denny's, it worked I got her number and got her interested in me. This past Saturday we went to a bar and at first we had some good conversations. However, a few of her friends came in and took all of her attention. I tried to play it cool trying to talk to everyone in the group, but I still need practice in approaching and keeping the attention on me. As I was losing her attention I did not want to be seen as an AFC so I went to talk to a few homeboys socialized with other people at the bar. Later on that night we hugged and held hands and that was it I did not kiss close. I have invited her on a date and she agreed, but I have a feeling that there will be alot of awkward silence, any suggestion on tested kiss close techniques and first date tips???
Anything will be appreciated!!!

the difference between friends and lovers is a kiss. take her out, escalate kino and when you start wondering whether or not you should kiss her, go in for the kiss

B-Man

hug, talk, kino, talk, kino, tri-gaze, KISS

in my experience I find that once ur holding hands, a kiss is the next step. when you hold her hand and lead her around the bar, its like anouncing that she's yours. she understands this. If you go for the kiss while holding hands, it appears less out of the blue and more the next step on the escalation ladder. If (on the rare off chance) she does turn away from the kiss and continues to hold your hand, you're still in there but she requires a little more gaming. it could just be her antislut defence, the wrong place or time, it could be anything but if she doesn't break kino, it's still on. try again later after a little more game and maybe try it in a different way. If she breaks kino after a failed kiss attempt, you're going to need to reassess the situation. u might need to alter your gameplan a bit or maybe even give up and move on to a new target.

Summary: once you're holding her hand, you've got a green light and, possibly after a little more game and fluff, go for the kiss.

Much appreciated, I have not seen her since Saturday but I'll get a chance to game her tomorrow.