So I met this girl at a bar, talked to her for awhile and ended up giving her my number. Next day hung out with her to see a band at some club and she was all over me, even made the first move to kiss and IOI's everywhere. Those two nights I was completely confident, felt in control the whole time. Now fast forward one week. She just got back from a week long vacation and I met up with her and her friends at a bar near my house. Everything was cool for a while, but when I got into a conversation with her friends she disappeared and was talking to like 3 random dudes. After that she basically ignored me the rest of the night and brushed me off when I told her I was leaving. So now I'm wondering the best way to handle this. By the way I just got into all of this and am absolutely loving it! I never knew a community like this even existed.

exlanation 1: she got buyer's remouse becuase you made it too easy for her and you were not a challenge.

explanation 2: something happened between the last time things were good and after her "vacation"

perhaps you displayed too much neediness when before or after you saw her again.

something definately happened here, but i'm not sure what. try to figure it out, because if it's something you don't notice you are doing, then you are likely to do it again.