FELLAS!!??? Do you see any chance for me to fix this one?? I tried, on my last comment, to embed a small sexually thought with my reply but I didn't receive anything back. I think I may have AFC'd or just pissed her off. Can you guys come up with anyway to fix it?? THANKS FOR THE HELP!!

PS. She's a HB9.5 who is seriously stuck on herself and thinks she is the SHIT!!!

ME: Is that your real hair..... or is that a weave?


HB:Real hair. I don't fuck wit weave

ME: Thats good... weave will mess your hair up for sure... seen it happen to too many women...don't worry, yours looks nice... (smile)

While I have your attention, I need a females prespective on something......Say, this guy is dating this girl, and she goes out with her friends, has a few drinks and ends of making out with a random guy at the bar.....Would you consider this cheating?



HB:Yea certainly!!!!

ME: WOW! Are all of your responses always so long.. I could barely find the time to read it all.. lol.. I like your enthusiasm though..

okay, let me ask you this......Take the same scenario, but this time the girl is making out with another girl, and lets say she does this almost every time she goes out.....would you consider that cheating?



HB: Yes. Definately!!!

ME: You know what? I like your take on things...

Beauty is so common these days, so tell me, what would make a guy want to get to know you instead of your looks??



HB: Elaborate more on what it is that u want me to tell u cause I can't quite figure out what ur talking about

ME: It seems like we have similar views on loyalty. That's one point for you(smile).

So tell me what makes you different than the next pretty face and don't say because you'll wear a sexy school girl outfit and cook me breakfast in the morning (playful grin). What would make me want to call you my new friend?

Well you opened up with a neg and when she responded you pretty much went AFC Nice guy on her trying to give her advice and such.
If your going open with such a strong frame of the wig opener you need to follow through with that atleast for a couple messages.

Also looks like your feeding her too much information without you having her hooked yet. Stop validating yourself with showing her mutual interest without her actually stating or telling you first for a fact.

"So tell me what makes you different than the next pretty face and don't say because you'll wear a sexy school girl outfit and cook me breakfast in the morning (playful grin). What would make me want to call you my new friend?"

In my opinion is a bit too sexual and you are saying "I want to fuck you by the way" lol. You are either going have a great response with that or a very negative response as it depends if she is interested in you.

When I use that beauty is common statement I don't direct it towards me, like "why would I want to get know you" because you can trigger her defensive mechanism since you are hitting on her, I like to take myself out the picture yet Subconsciously you can defend yourself if she calls you out with "Why are you trying get to know me?". I like to reword it with "besides your looks, why would someone want to get to know you/befriend you?"

Something you might might find useful when doing online gaming is learning weasel phrases. They are used in NLP but can be applied to online gaming

Keep me posted.

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"And yay God said to Abraham, taketh thy herb and with fire consume it, for it is the dankest of dank. Seriously Abe, you gotta try this shit. I'm baked off my ass right now" - Luke 4:20

Thanks for the reply bro.. thats a lot of great info that I will definately try to apply next time. Do you think there is any message I could send her now to rehook her at all? What if I lead off with "Myspace kinda messed up on me so I'm not sure if you got my last message but... blah blah blah"??? What do you think??

Thanks again.

Its really hard without seeing her profile if there is something unique interesting you can find talk about.

like music, maybe her pictures and where she is at, what she is doing.

You can try get her in good mood without that last message just sending a sexual vibe, like if she went on a trip somewhere bring it up in a message.
One i did recently I saw a picture of her in Italy... Ive always wanted to visit Italy so I sent her a message like so..

"Subject: I hate you...Because...

I am sooo soo Jealous lol, all my life I been trying plan this trip to Italy and there you are with you having what seems be an awesome time in Italy!
I am scared because they claim Italy is very very costly and money disappears quickly but also there isn't alot of english talking... Is this true?

Your going have to tell me about this trip in a later time! "

You can kinda see the rollercoaster effect there of emotions, before she opens your message shes going have all these negative thoughts in her head from your subject. Once she opens your message shes going to laugh and feel surprised at the fact you are actually interested in similiar things she is. Also that question I said is total BS but she doesn't have to know that, Im just really curious if its expensive and hows the language barrier over there lol. "your going have to tell me in later time", you are telling her that you will be still talking to her in later time .


If there is nothing interesting for you to relate than just buckle down for her Response


Use Smileys also they always work haha

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"And yay God said to Abraham, taketh thy herb and with fire consume it, for it is the dankest of dank. Seriously Abe, you gotta try this shit. I'm baked off my ass right now" - Luke 4:20

Thanks Reminis..

This girl has nothing I can find to even comment on.. her profile is nothing but pictures of her in her house, in the car, in the bathroom, in the hallway, and pretty much anywhere she can take a picture... would you mind taking a peek and let me know if you see something I'm missing heres her myspace link myspace.com/ciara3222 .. I thought about trying this but it seems lame..

"My space was acting up so I'm not sure if you even got my last message. No biggy though. Anyway..... I see you are from Louisana. Have you ever been to the aquarium in NOLA? If you have and thought that was cool, you should see the one I went to in Japan. They have amazing beautiful fish with brillant colors.. they even have Whale Sharks.. 3 of them to be exact. Have you ever seen a Whale Shark up close, kinda puts in perspective just how small we are in natures eyes. I took tons of pics, I'll share some with you later."

What do you think???

Too much going in your message you want to send, thats more of Aim convo where she can Agree/disagree with you to build suspense.

Looked at her pictures and several things you can talk about.
The beach-She has several pics of her at some type of beach setting
Her partying- You can challenge her like "You havent been to a party until you been to one on MY side of town!" or you can say something like a Neg
"Besides Partying and Drinking all the time lol, What do you do for fun?"

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"And yay God said to Abraham, taketh thy herb and with fire consume it, for it is the dankest of dank. Seriously Abe, you gotta try this shit. I'm baked off my ass right now" - Luke 4:20