Hey Folks, first post - not long joined!

I've been learning as much as I can about this stuff for a couple of months, Ebooks, Audios etc..Anyways..I've never tried myspace so I joined it for the first time about a week ago, I searched for local girls and sent out the same mail massage to a few, I got one back but the advice I'm looking for here is, What to do next? How to go about it? -

I' regret a few things I've done in the past, passing on opportunities, waiting too long and blowing my chances etc. Rather than just beating about the bush, Chat and Text for weeks or months and then it just dies and doesn't go anywhere. As part of my learning curve I'd like to try my best to experiment and change a little.

Here's the original message I sent..

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Why Hello, You probarly get about 40 mails a day from loser guys saying things, Although you sound like you might be more than just another pretty face, I was browsing for local girls and I couldn't resist but to say Hello, we should Chat somtime.. if you think you can handle it, that is!
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Hey thanx thats nice ov u. I actually dnt get that many mail lol and yeh I would love 2 chat will u x x

So I've replied ofcourse and I've got her MSN Address (Was this the right thing to do?)...I've not spoken to her yet on that but when I do what should I be looking to do, get her number? ..

Thanks,

Yes getting her Msn was Definitely appropriate as she just showed interest not only by replying but by directly stating she would.
She seems like a fun person also by the way she is challenging you.

Don't go for her number right away, build a nice conversation with eachother and make sure she is responding timely and showing interest. Don't flirt too direct or show you want her too fast as she will probably be discouraged but definitely get into some good conversations like "What type of guys you normally hangout with?", "whats your kind of fun?" These are good questions which she can lead into a sexual path and you can stay ona sexual topic from then

To get her number unless you can clearly just ask and get it, You can go for a more subtle indirect way like "I just upgraded my phone for free texts! You need to text me xxx-xxx-xxxx, just don't call me like 25 times especially after 3:00am like my ex used to!"

Hopefully this helped.

Thanks for the reply reminis, it makes sense and it's helped, Cheers!

Daaamm.. She came online tonight for the first time but I was about to leave and really had to go, She said Hey Hey first aswell but I had to say sorry i'll speak later but she's offline now, ohwell hopfully she's back on again soon.

Should I mail her on myspace and say sorry again that I had to go etc or should I just leave it?

don't be too sorry with her, If you explained why you had to go you don't need to tell her again. If you left suddenly then its ok just send her an email like "lastnight I went to XXXXX, would of loved to stay and atleast chat with you for a bit but I was literally out the door. Message me again and Im sure we can try it again lol, "

one thing I try stay away from is Apologizing too much online. Just isn't MY style because it tends to send a needy "im trying win you" type of vibe in my opinion.

If you did explain to her why you had leave lastnight, just comment her picture briefly so she gets a notifier of new comment and you can be on her mind again, and shows you wern't blowing her away.

Theres lots of ways you can go with this lol.

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"And yay God said to Abraham, taketh thy herb and with fire consume it, for it is the dankest of dank. Seriously Abe, you gotta try this shit. I'm baked off my ass right now" - Luke 4:20

I understand what you mean about the Sorry thing online..However I didn't tell how where i was going just said I really had to go.. I guess I'll wait till she comes back online soon hopfully and I'll say somthing about it.