Traditionally, a relationship is an agreement between two people, normally from the opposite sex, where based on their view of attraction and congruity towards one another, have risen above the dating status in order to grow with one another as well as to grow as individuals.
Relationships should be treasured because they allow us to delve deep into the other person's personality while fulfilling our physical desires of the opposite sex.


So for my benefit as well as for the benefit of others, I would like to compile a list of all the relationship do's and dont's.
However, keep in mind that every relationship is unique, so every do or don't will NOT apply to every relationship.
Don't be scared to provide an uncommon or specific example, but be sure to explain fully the origins behind it so we can know where your coming from, because the more specific you get, the more likely it is that it is exclusive to your relationship only.
Finally, let's have a good time with this, tell your crazy stories, etc.



To start off, I will provide one example of each. (But feel free to provide as many examples as you like. Ladies and Gents, this is no-limit posting here.)



DON'T think that, just because you have got a woman means that you can just throw away your game, or even relax it for that matter. KIIS, Keep It Interesting Stupid.

DO (i need to say it? lol) Do mix it up in bed. Nobody will laugh after they hear the same joke over and over again, unless they're just mental. Once again, KIIS.




bonus:
DON'T Buy her a "thanks for being with me" gift within the first month or so that is so expensive that in order to pay the gift off, you have to mortgage off your house, car, x-box 360, or whatever the fuck you treasure. Plus, thats a lot to live up to for the remainder of the relationship.







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Dont: If she is trying to have more power in the relationship by making you start everything (ei: text convos, calls, ideas for going out, ect.), ignore her for a little while. go our w/ ur guy friends...my gf usaully relies on me to make everything happen, but last weekend i didnt txt her much and then now she always starts stuff with me. also, the time off was sort of nice hanging w/ my guy friends.

Do: make her feel special, but not in a AFC sort of way. All attraction relies on the push-pull concept in my opinion. Always have an action-reward system going with your girl.

Don't: Assume that now that you have a girlfriend sex will come easier. A relationship is not supposed to be only about sex and women, more than anyone, know this and want it.

Do: Realize that now that you have a relationship, you will need to "put her in the mood" and make her want to have sex with you. You have to be romantic and set the mood. Now that she is with you, she wants to feel even more appreciated. This is not to say that you can't run game. In fact, a few negs here and there, or a good little argument will put you in a position to show her your willingness to go out of the way to set the mood and redeem yourself, allowing you to get what you want.

As much as this sucks, even a girl you have whipped over you will eventually get to a breaking point where she will not do every little thing you say. Nor will she come over at the drop of a hat. They all want more and the PUA illusion can only work for so long. I know this from recent experience.

great! lets keep it up.

DON'T: ever let her think you are insecure

DO: show that you are confident in yourself even when you ARE feeling insecure

DONT: Don't ever be dishonest.

DO: Establish clear boundaries for what is acceptable for you.

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DO: Be the awesome person you are.

DONT: Ever think that you don't have to grow with the relationship, change some ideals, and be flexible.

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reward good behavior
punish bad behavior

rewards -
just tell her, "i really enjoyed the way you were last week, such a cutie all week"
little girlie gifts and tell her girlie things "this is because you have been such a sweet little thing recently"


punishments.
just tell her, I think im gonna have a weekend for myself, I dont feel youve been really focusing on me recently and i need some "john" time
im not prepared to discuss this until you've cleared your thoughts, lets do this tomorrow and lets keep it calm.

etc
etc
etc

could start a thread on things to reward / punish, ways to reward / punish.

cheers boys

Don't speak when you are mad, or take your anger out on her.
Do wait until you calm down enough to talk.

Don’t buy roses for Valentine’s Day.
Do buy flowers that begin with the first letter of her name.

Don’t go to popular vacation spots during their busy seasons.
Do go right before or after the busy season.

Don’t read the newspaper at the breakfast table.
Do talk with one another over breakfast.

Don’t leave love-making until just before sleeping.
Do schedule more time for foreplay.

Don’t make love the same way every time.
Do eliminate distractions for two to three hours.

Don’t rush through lovemaking.
Do slow down! You’ll both enjoy yourselves, and each other, more.

Don’t try to change your partner.
Do accept him or her for the special, unique person he or she is.

Don’t gloat when you’re right.
Don’t worry – be happy.
Don’t try to pack too much into the weekend.
Don’t over-schedule your vacations.
Don’t make the same mistake twice.
Don’t interrupt when he or she is talking.
Don’t hold grudges.
Don’t let your mind wander during conversations.
Don’t wait for your partner to read your mind.
Don’t just sign “Love” on your Valentine’s Day card; be eloquent.
Don’t be so judgmental.
Don’t wait until the last minute to make Valentine’s Day dinner reservations.
Don’t even try to leave the house during a blizzard. Snuggle together for a romantic day off.

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Do: Get her nice gifts, not AFC

dont: overdue anything

I like this post - it's good!

In my recent experiences I've noticed!

DON'T: Don't agree with her on every thing she says. If she's mad about something or says, "Blah blah blah - this person sucks I hate them!" Don't be like, 'Oh, yeah he should burn in hell baby!" She's just venting out or whatever. Plus, on a side note of that - if you're building rapport together don't be like, "Oh, me too - that is so cool! We're like soul mates!" She'll pick up on that and go, "Okay, this guy isn't who he says he is!" I was chatting with a girl and I asked her, 'What's your favorite soft drink?" she replied, "Coke!" Now an AFC would say, "Oh my god, me too that is so awesome!" instead I replied, "Damn, I thought you were gonna say Moutain Dew!" She replied, 'I was hooked on Moutain dew for a while!" Be different and don't kiss her ass all the time. Plus, don't succumb to what she wants from you. If she's always demanding something - tell her that she's being bossy and you'll do it when you get a chance not when she snaps her finger. This is self respect and she'll love you for it!There's a ton more but I'll move on!

DO'S: Be yourself - no matter what! She'll have more respect for you if you do so! Plus, she'll like you more if you're actually interested in her as a person not some sex object. Women sense that a mile away - I was talking to a friend yesterday and this guy is a horn ball. She told me, "I'm sorry Tony died!" She already knew he was trying to get in her pants by calling her hun, babe and whatever. I laughed and said, "Why in the hell can I get away with it? The thing is that I treat you like a person not an object!" and she agreed. The thing is that if you treat her like a person that has feelings - she'll like you and want to be around you more! Also, surprise her occasionally - women love suprises! If you know she's coming home and is tired fix her a bath - she'll be so amazed that you did and feel more appreciated - plus the less she'll want to cheat on you because you make her special.

I sense a theme going on here, don't you? LOL!

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DONT call out her sisters name halfway through sex
DONT ask if she would be up for a threesome with her sister
DONT tell her her sisters hot!

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HAHAHA.

Did you do all this? lol

This is an awesome post and i think it should be kept alive

DONT: dont spend every weekend with her, and let her know you are doing something you are having fun with that she is not included.
DO: Disagree with her at least once a day to keep things smooth.

peace!

DO: Hug her, and kiss her in front of her friends and in front of your friends. In front of her friends gives you points with them (specially her girl friends), and the more her friends like you, the better it is for you. And if you hug her in front of your friends it lets her know that you're not ashamed of her and you like her, to be with her, but don't kiss her a lot, or she'll think you're showing off.

DONT: Make her look inferior in front of her friends, do tease her, and tease her friends, but don't really make fun about a mistake she does.