what did i do wrong. we were gonna go out today . .. i meet her up at work around 4pm and ask her if we are still going.. she says her parents dont trust her and that she has bring someone with her . I say OK . then at closing time .. i see her again leaving .. i am thinking that we are going so ... i say are you ready .. she goes . i have to go somewhere with my parents b/c there is some family thing going on ... i am like' are we guna go or not ' ....

she says maybe later ..... says bye and leaves ... wat the hell . i am serious and shes doing all this .. what is going on . ima see her tomorrow . what should i say . we work at the same place and were getting off at the same time ..

1 - Don't get annoyed by a girl flaking on you

2 - If you can't do that, definitely don't let her see you're annoyed by it. Let her see the 'OK, whatever' attitude.

Maybe she's telling the truth about her parents, maybe she's making excuses, there's not enough information there for me to decide.

Bottom line is, she should be only one of dozens of potential girls you have lined up.

And I don't recommend dating at work (especially if it's your main full-time job that pays your rent) unless you're planning on leaving the place or can find a job easily somewhere else.

Don't be needy, it could be true she was going somewhere with her parents but she didn't suggest another time so i would consider that as an IOD (Indicator of disinterest)