Is it cool to just call a girl you're gaming? Went out to dinner once, ran into her once up at a bar where she was texting me all night to come down, she came over one night and watched a movie....i've been taking it all slow b/c she got dumped about 5 weeks ago. but is it cool to just call and say whatup? i think from a natural standpoint there's nothing wrong with it, develop comfort...but in a "game" standpoint...is it going to screw things up? full disclosure: no kiss close yet.

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"I'm like a dog chasing a car; if I ever caught it I don't think I'd know what to do with it" - Heath Ledger as The Joker

If she gave you her phonenumber then she more or less told you that it is ok to call her. I normally send a text first thing I do and then call if I have something to say like, hey were going to this and that place tomorrow, wanna come?
It will not destroy your game if you call her.

That's what I was thinking too. Thanks man.

So anyway this opportunity came up so I went with it. My friend came over, and told me that our boy was all bummed out the last couple of days. He said it was because his gf came home, and he doesn't want to spend any time with her. He thinks she's trying to change part of him. So I used this as a chance to text this girl up:

me: do you think that women try to change men that they're seriously involved with at all?
her: haha where is this coming from? I don't think so...or at least they shouldnt
me: i was curious because my friend's gf has been back from college, and he hasn't been happy since. he thinks she's trying to change him
her: well then they shouldn't be together. i mean that's not right dude. he should be happy
me: i thought so too. she's kind of been good for him tho
her: well then he needs to tell her to snap out of it or something...i feel like girls do that sometimes and maybe she doesn't realize it?
me: u are probably right. thank u
her: ha ha no prob. don't know how much help i was!

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-Bronco

"I'm like a dog chasing a car; if I ever caught it I don't think I'd know what to do with it" - Heath Ledger as The Joker