Hey everyone

Was at a club, opened a 2 set, hesitated a wee bit, still a bit of a sticking point. Later on after a bit of game, the target HB 8 was interested, her friend (HB 6) then started to show more and more interest aswell until there was no way that the HB 6 was going to let me get anything from the HB 8, what should i have done???????????

I came up against that earlier in the night, a 3 set, target HB 8, her friend kept showing IOI's, she was a 5 on a good day!!! After chatting to the 5 and having a dance off, the HB 8 target was up on me and I K-closed shortly after.

What was done differently????? I dont think the hesitation would have made that much of a difference?????

HEY I have to know is that " WHAT IS YOUR BODY TYPE " ?

as like are u skinny , fat , or etc....

Because most the time if you are better body than the obstacle, they will not even bother to hit on you, instead they will envy you. LIKE FOR EX:

ME I AM A BODY BUILDER, I LIFT WEIGHT. EVER SINC I GOT IN GOOD SHAPE, UGLY GIRL NEVER HIT ON ME NOW, ONLY THE HOT ONE. IT IS BECAUSE THEY FEEL THAT THEY ARE OUT MY LEAGUE DUE TO MY BODY SHAPE.

TO YOUR ANSWER :

What you should do is first go for the OBSTACLE, then NEG the target , then isolate with the TARGET.


MAGIC J.

Im 6'1'' and quite built, i work out and generally try and stay in shape.

I understand paying less attention to the target in the early stages of the interaction, i think i may need to negging the targets more.

What about the concept that the friend is jealous of the target and then cockblocks??????

How would you guys isolate the target in a 2 set pre close???

Everybody finds it easy to isolate (eg- get off the dance floor etc) post close but how would you suggest going about that pre close, in a 2 set especially they are reluctant to split with their friend.
Or does that prob only arise if the comfort stage wasnt done properly, should both the friend and target be happy enough to split up?????

Thanks