History:
I meet an Asian8 on Friday night and k-closed 3hrs. Started to text and we had coffee on Sunday afternoon 2 hrs.

Incident:
The Asian8 wanted to see me before the weekend so she caught the train to my area and i picked her up. As it was around dinner time we went and had sushi. After sushi we went to mini golf.

After mini golf I said we should watch a movie at my crib. Got home and I showed her the moonwalking bird video clip and some other ones too. We started watching the movie and as it does, we start to make out. I notice her legs are crossed while we are doing it, I hold her hand and put it on her stomach (I heard this somewhere), she doesn’t move it anywhere and we are just kissing. I freeze out.

We start back up after about 5 mins and I touch her breast and I notice she starts to feel uncomfortable, I stop touching and keep kissing. I start to kiss her neck and she is moaning. I start to touch the inside of her thigh and she crosses them again so I stop and get another drink and kept watching the movie.

About 10 mins later it starts back up and I take her top off. She jumps on my lap and after a couple of minutes she says, “what are we doing?” I didn’t know how to reply so I said, “going with the moment.” She said, “omg I was just on your lap.” I said, “yeah I know you were going with the moment.” We stop so I freeze her out again.

After another 10 mins we are back into it and we start to dry root. She is moaning and breathing really heavily. Thinking it was going to be on like donky kong she says, “omg I cannot believe what Im doing, we cant do this.” I said I understand.” I get up and freeze out again. I didn’t know what to do next so the movie finished and I took her home… any advice

I've had this problem twice with two different girls in the last week (once at a friends house alone on the couch and another at her house alone with no roommates). Did the same thing, freeze-outs and distractions, etc. I can't help but think I didn't do a strong enough job in the later attraction phases or not enough patterning.

I'd love to hear some advice too though

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