I know I am a very good looking guy but I always put my self down and find so many flaws in my self....or when I talk to people I over think and worry about what Im going to say.

I have dated girls who clearly like me but I always think they will see my flaws and think "I dont like this gy any more"....who eles has this problem? I can put on a good front in public but I realy want to just not care.....not stress about what I look like or what I say.

Sweet Jesus.

Until you sort these issues out you will always have problems.

I wsh I was there to slap you over the head and tell you to stop feeling sorry for yourself.

Tell me what it is that you actually want to do. We can then work out what is stopping you. What sort of guy is worried about these flaws?

Matt

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I dont feel sorry for my self....why do you think i joined this site and am trying to change my life. I am 10 times better then I was a year ago but I still find my self sliping into old habits.

Im kinda dating a girl right now and I keep feeling like she wont like me when realy she is head over heals for me....I just feel like she will see somthing or I will say somthing that will make her turn and walk away.

I dont know what to do....I have worked on geting in to great shape, I go out all the time now and talk to women, dance with women, and date them which a year ago i wouldent have even thought of doing.....I enjoy life alot more now! but once i found a girl that I realy like I just get all fucked up....I start thinking she will find some other dude and ditch me so I put on a front like a i dont care around her.

This is a good post by Solomon II that should help, if you haven't read it already. You need to work on your inner game and excepting yourself, once you do that, others will except you too.

the-key-to-great-inner-game-vt33474.html

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Yesterday her and I just had a talk about how we feel but then she starts talking about how she never thought she would meet another person who made her feel like her ex did until she met me.....then out of no were she started blasting me with all these feeling and telling me she likes me so much and but she want to feel what its like to be single, and then she tells me she doesint know what she wants because she likes me so much????

I just told her w.e Im not going to be her safety blanket and she kept telling me I just dont understand....so I was like w.e your right I dont understand then I hung said goonight and hung up.

Its this shit that brings back old habits from my past....like what if she stops liking me or somthing.

I swear girls are fucked...lol she cant just enjoy the feeling and accept it....no she has to fuck with my head and try to make me feel sorry for her.

That link was great! Its true "she eather likes me or she doesint" and thats how I need to think....fuck it if she leaves me for another guy thers nothing I can do about it, plus I cant change who I am so why not accept it and move on....she obviously who I am so I shouldent worry so much. I just hate how she tries to fuck with my head!

Hey guys

I have thrown some of my client interviews with guys from this forum up on my new site.

Please click on http://www.realworldhypnotherapy.com/ and have a listen to guys like you and how they have overcome their approach anxiety.

I am always here to help.

Matt

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London based hypnotherapist. I can help you with gaining confidence with women and social situations. Get in contact for more information.

For an interview chat with one of my clients click www.realworldhypnotherapy.com