Other alpha maled several times. Not very recently, but before learning about the PUA community.

case 1.

I am being a champ to this girl I just met at a club and I tell her we will dance the song that was being played. We hold hands and I guide her through the crowd, BUT...sudennly, another guy says hi, hugs her, and before I can introduce myself he takes her hand and leads her into dancing. I was absolutely other alpha maled. I didn't see anymore of the girl that night.


case 2.

I randomly went to "visit" an old friend from high-school, didn't see her for ages. We go to the club district, have quite a few drinks at a bar, hold hands, lots of kino, then we go to her friend's table at a club, she introduces me as a super champ, they are all laughing with me and I am driving the whole show. A french dude is with us and I totally alpha male him and treat him like a kid. Awesome so far. The girl is buying me drinks and has the puppy dog look on her eyes. I feel I won. Thwen we head to another club with her friends, and once there, some dude grabs her waist and starts whispering stuff and she leaves with him. I grab her waist too and ask "what are you doing?" wirh a smile and cocky attitude, and she replies "nothing" and she leaves with the dude. I exit the club and go home like a loser. I never called her again nor she did.


Ok, so what the heck was going on? How am I supposed to protect my target from these guys? Now I know about the alpha male thing, but then I didn't feel like stepping up to other guys, especially if the girl seems to like them.

Any comments, jokes, whatever are welcome.

Honestly, is that all they did??
It seems suspect to me that a guy will just go up to a girl, grab her hips, whisper into her ear and that the girl would be responsive to that. Perhpas the guys and the girl knew each other before? If not I want to know what the hell these guys did to be able to basically get a girl with a greeting and kino. Either way its your skills, you need to step the game up. I dont know what you mean by champ but perhaps you were joking to much and turning out to be the goof or you were doing ok but some guy projecting anamalistic sexuality comes and takes her away. Either way, the only way to combat this is to get better. If you attract her and attract her well she will not be responsive to other random guys because she will be focused on you (of course this is if you have alot of rapport and shes definately attracted). Other than that not much you can do. Cant stop the girl and any chance to appeal to the guy can be met with a fight or him amoging you, plus you supplicate when you show jealousy. I would say if a girl does the move on and if she comes back later neg her bad and make her work to be able to hang out with you again.

ya man, jelosy is supplicating so that's a no-no in the book.
Yeah, in both cases the girls (it was clear) knew this guys, but I guess those guys were more than friends with them, or they are that slutty with their friends I guess. Standing up to a guy can be tricky, and makes one look needy I guess. It's just that, as you say, I cannot attract them enough as to have them focus solely on me. damm!

thanks all.

Pretend like you know the guy the approaches and ask them if their rash cleared up yet. The key is being extremely friendly and acting as if you've known them since childhood.

You: Hey man!!! Whats up? (Pretend to whisper to him) Hey, did that really bad butt rash clear up yet?

Him: ?!

You: Cindy told me she had a hard time rubbing all that lotion back there!

Any attempt for him to deny it will make him look bad. If he gets mad at you or tries to diss he will look bad as well.

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