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PostPosted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 7:34 am 
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so I watched Dave Ms vid on the fake profile thing....94 emails in 3 days on the fake profile....i mean damn dude...94!!

next i made my own profile and i used this opener....(taken from the Dave M vid) i messaged about 15 girls with it

Subject: Here's a question for you...

If I were sitting here talking to your best friend in the world, what would he or she tell me about you that I can't learn from reading your profile?

Have a good night,
biggunz


so here are 2 responses i got so far, how should i reply?

girl 1: "well since i dont have a best friend! ill have to get creative! lol! my friend will tell you
that i like to dream, she would also tell you i believe in mermaids, santa , vampires,
and unicorns! i really do think they all exist! lol! "

girl 2: "that im the best haha "


any ideas for replies?
how do i follow up and get them hooked?


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 3:11 pm 
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so here are 2 responses i got so far, how should i reply?

girl 1: "well since i dont have a best friend! ill have to get creative! lol! my friend will tell you
that i like to dream, she would also tell you i believe in mermaids, santa , vampires,
and unicorns! i really do think they all exist! lol! "

girl 2: "that im the best haha "


any ideas for replies?
how do i follow up and get them hooked?
They are hooked or they would have responded. I would go into something a little cocky funny. Maybe something like

"No really...what would they say? What I'm wanting to here is the goofy stuff that she'd tell me, the real stuff. Things like she twirls her hair when she gets nervous or holds her breath when she's mad. I'll tell you a quirky thing about me when you respond."

The reason I go for this is regardless of how hot the girl there is always some funny quirky thing about them as their is with most people. I'm trying to get some instant rapport for her to express that and us have something to talk about, and then me give up something too.

It's a sort of disqualifier in a way acting like we don't believe that rehearsed lines they just told us as well.

CHEERS 8)

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thanks man im gonna try this right now
at what point do i drop a lil compliment? after she gives me one or what?


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 16, 2008 4:32 pm 
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thanks man im gonna try this right now
at what point do i drop a lil compliment? after she gives me one or what?
You can drop a compliment after another message or so. I don't like giving compliments to quick into an interaction. I think Chris Rock explained it best in one of his skits during his "Bigger and Blacker" HBO special.

He was stating that when a guy goes up a girl and says something like "How about a drink?" It pretty equals "How about some nice d-ck." Or when a guys says "Nice Shoes.." = "How about some nice d-ck." You get the idea here is that when you are being nice most when assume it's for a reason. This is why I wait until further along in the interaction.

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haha i gotcha. good analogy lol


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"No really...what would they say? What I'm wanting to here is the goofy stuff that she'd tell me, the real stuff. Things like she twirls her hair when she gets nervous or holds her breath when she's mad. I'll tell you a quirky thing about me when you respond."
whats a quirky "about me" thing i can tell them that doesnt sound too gay?


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"No really...what would they say? What I'm wanting to here is the goofy stuff that she'd tell me, the real stuff. Things like she twirls her hair when she gets nervous or holds her breath when she's mad. I'll tell you a quirky thing about me when you respond."
whats a quirky "about me" thing i can tell them that doesnt sound too gay?
Dude, I don't know you well enough to tell you that. It doesn't matter you can be like "I like reading Cosmo & Girl Magazines for the articles where they think they know what men think." or "I like pickle juice" or anything that is true about yourself. Everyone has some quirky things about themselves.

My girlfriend for example always each fries with ranch and ketchup mixed together. I like eating dry Ramen Noodles for a snack. What do you do?

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so at this point i start being a little more "genuine" i guess? how long should i keep the opener up until i start having a normal convo with her before going for a number close or something like that


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ok some findings from my recon profile

in 5 days i have received 223 messages on plentyoffish
about 10 left their phone number
1 guy just pasted a long ass poem
about 20 of them added "gifts"
most subjects started with "hi, or hey"
1 guy used the "is that a wig or your real hair" line
everytime i logged in, in about 1 minute 3-5, or more, people were trying to IM the fake profile

i set up a real profile for myself, and got 0 emails (expected lol)

messaged about 15 girls on my real profile using the same opener as above, 3 replied...makes me a sad noob-pua :(
when the 3 replied and i responded using the line above about the holding your breath thing, twirling her hair when nervous, 0 replied to that.

edit: in the process of shutting down the fake profile and i got 2 more emails. 225.
1 said this "If you stood in front of a mirror and held up eleven roses, you would see twelve of the most beautiful things in the world. " awww so sweet


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