Every since becoming a PUA I find it so interesting to watch people (guys) at bars trying to pick up girls. My favorite is watching a guy try to pick up a girl and seeing all of her IOD's and then stepping, gaming, with a number close. I saw this picture on a site and it made me think of all those AFC's out there......This pic is for you.



Notice her body language, and his hand placement and body language LOL
Push- pull, not push push, push.
This is a bad example of comfort building and possible has to do with no wing.

well this photo can really point out a pua from an afc.
when i saw it i almost bust into laughs...i mean ok i am not the best pua in the world but this photo looks no different to me than a woman looking desperately around and a guytrying to kiss her(i am sure more experienced people in here will see mnay more similarities between the 2 situations than me)

however when i showed it to an afc telling him this guy was a friend of mine he was like "wow this guy has two girls at the same time and seems to keep the happy with it!tell him to teach me!"

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this quote is a pissa also - we should ALL be able to see the huge difference bewteen our mind-set and an AFC.

also the pic is a pissa - i woulda plonked my arse righ tin between theirs for a start!!

He should probably not be drinking a girl's drink either...

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I love being able to point out subtle body language indications nowadays.
Oh and she has lovely boobs.

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- Giacomo
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.... and some not so subtle differences, hey gia......

HAHAHA I love the posts guys. That picture def makes me laugh every time I open this thread. Many good comments and observation.

it looks as if hes literally tryin to pull her towards him even thou hes sat on a seperate chair, and if you look closely i think the one he has his arm around has a ring on her left hand fourht finger? married bird /engaged woteva?

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I want to give the guy benefit of the doubt and say he is running a picture routine, where you look as though you are an AFC. I am saying its a possibility, it could be a badass rountine to disarm obstacles and/or bitch shields

I'm confused... what is he doing wrong with his body language?

How SHE is telling him that she isn't interested.

-Her legs are crossed Away from him
-Her arm is up on her leg "blocking" him
-Her body is turned away from him
-She is Married and damn near showing off the ring
-He is touching her hip and she is STILL leaning away

That is just simple reading of the girl. His bad body language is a pretty decent list too.

Just a couple:

-leaning into her hardcore (Chasing)
-holding drink across his chest
-wearing a ring that is way to small for him on his right hand. (Looks bad)
-trying to lean across the chair rail... he chose where to sit poorly.

How are we sure that he is running game on her? For all we know, they could actually be engaged to each other? We don't really know. We are only seeing the small picture here, and we are totally unaware of the nature of their relationship.
However, as PUA's we can definitely learn from this photo.

-Klootz

i have to agree...if you look at his hand around her hip has something very likely to be a wedding band...they are all drinking the same thing and finnally his is sitting in a seperated chair w/ a arm sticking up which would explain the distance between him and the ladies to his right...for all we know thats his gf w/ one of her friends

edit: its on his middle finger... i thought it was the other finger at a glance.
still everybody is a little to eager to tear this guy apart.

It doesn't matter if this guy got laid later tonight or if he is a Polygamist and is married to both of the women. The point is, the body language. As a PUA you should learn how to read it, control it, and interpret it correctly. Personally, I have been striving every single day to improve mine and I have actually gotten women to open ME. I've had statements like "Why are you always smiling?" and "You look like the cat that ate the canary." It helps and I am slowly figuring out if a woman is even attracted to me while I am talking to her. I am oblivious to that most of the time. Actual visual Examples are a great tool and this one does show alot and THAT is what it was posted here for.



EvoJ

Haha, that guys a loser. And also notice how he's holding his beer bottle. Wow, that must have been a very awkward moment. Who do you think took the picture.. his friends or the girls' friends? Haha... the poor bastard's probably drunk.