Ok I am having this problem. I am back in my hometown and I haven't partied here since I was 18. (I am 21 now). But my problem is I used to be a AFC or" funny nice guy" Sure I had some natural flirting ability and did get some girls here in town. But I still was just the nice guy. Now tonight I am suppose to be going out with some friends to the main bar in town, where most people I went to highschool with go to party that are still in town. How do I over come the girls who already know me for who I was back then? Will they see right through to the person I am trying to become and am part way there? Because deep down we all have some AFC left in us. Has anyone else had this problem and if so how can I justify my change? I know people change, but should I just modify my style to how I was but more cocky/funny. It's pretty confusing how I am gonna come off as this big AMOG when before I was just the funny nice guy of the group.

Great, you want to be the AMOG. If people question you're new behavior, say something CF "well, prison does that" or something CF of your own thoughts. Hel you could say, "well, before, I didn't get laid" That would be funny.

If you haven't seen some people in a few years, reinvent yourself.

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Alright I will try some of that tonight. I swung by the bar undercover last night. I wore a hat and some baggy clothes just to see how the place was doing and it's the exact same way it was left 3 years ago. If I even lightly peacocked I would stand out. Everyone has small town-itis. But hopefully tonight I can lay down some openners and see if I can get some number, kiss and maybe a fuck close. I will have a field report tomorrow hopefully... if things go well that is.

you have learned about not being an AFC. this doesn't mean you are Mystery. Just be yourself, but a better version of yourself, people will notice you have changed and it will all be good so long as you don't make it look fake or acted.


good luck pal.

We all start as AFC's. Juggler says that if a girl thinks she knows you and has rejected you than change it up and show her she doesnt know you be being yourself but different. I agree with the AFC comments. Just be smooth and outgoing and show them you arent an AFC anymore.