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PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 7:09 pm 
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Basically I’m going to a house party on Saturday and I know there are at least half a dozen 9’s there (maybe more)

I’ve seen them before in passing but never really spoke to them but they kinda know who I am... is this an advantage or a disadvantage?

Basically I need to know how to open, build comfort could you give me a rough idea what to say when to say it

Cos of the situation (my friends house and her party) I can make general chit chat with them but I need to know how to look for subtitle clues she’s giving off etc and I need to make them interested in me

I know this is really vague but just give me 3 or 4 points something I can build up from it

Also I know there’s a lot of posts coving stuff like this but I would like to know what you PUA’s would do personally in this situation :)

Thanks

Kannon


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 7:50 pm 
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Quite simple.

Open - False Time Constraint (ill only be a second gota rejoin my mate..etc)
- Neg the target (Nice hair! Is it always that messy/neat you ruffian/square *Que cheeky smile*)

When openeing have slightly more energy than your targets grp has, dont face them when you open and about 10secs in you can start to turn to them. Remember to keep your body slightly turned from the target and shoot off negs at her.

The way you should open should be like you were pondering the question while walking past them and ure sorta thinking
"umm.... hmm.... (notice set) Ohh! ill just ask them" Turn head not body and open.

Then start to tell storys, do magic tricks, cold reads, question games. Basically anything that conveys that you are someone that, if they get to know, they will gain from. be it new skills and a higher social standing etc.

Once uve demonstrated a higher value for the group you should start to notice the target will give you IOI's [Indicators of intrest], things like touching you, laughing at joke that isnt too good, tossing her hair, complementing you on something.

During this time if ure dealing with a 2set of chicks especially you need a wing to come in a Distract the obsticle. While u start A3

A3

Now you know shes attracted to you, you need to let her Validate herself to you. You do this by allowing her in, previously you were just ignoring her. No point throwing negs in there anymore u know she likes you, now you need to Bait, Hook, Reel, Release.

Bait - Ask her a question; So how old are you
Hook- She answers; oh im 21...
Reel- Give her a IOI; Thats so awsome i think thats an age that perfectly balances playfullness and maturity! .....
Release - You push her away; .....Now we can never hang out, your too good for me!

Repeat as you get to know her better, let her 'win you over'.

through out the A section dont fall into her 'Shit tests' where she trys to make you jump through Hoops for her (hoop theory), instead make her jump through one for you, then reward her by jumping into hers.

HB:So whats your name?
PUA: Guess!
HB: hahah serious? (make a serious face, then stick ure tounge out) haha ok..urm....Jeffory!
PUA: Wrong! Oh my gosh you suck! its Chikito (lol sounds fucked up, i use my RL name btw)
HB: Hi Chikito! Its awsome to meet you!
PUA: I couldnt agree more! I thought u were kinda bland at first but im warming up to you now! (If u think you can open arms for hug) Give papa bear a hug!
HB: hahaha ok!

Then now you should be in a position to #close atleast. From now you need some comfort and trust building so yeah that takes time.

Watch out for your body language, dont rock, peck in to talk, Lean in, or chase after moving sets. Just get louder and stand confidently. Try to position yourself so it looks like your the centre of attention (lean on a wall while they gather around you). Start to eyeball other sets ure intrested in at the same time :P

Thats just a generall skim over the basics.

Hope it helps! Chikito.
Btw any of you that dont think its cool posting this up here just pm me cus i have this wierd feeling this much detail is taboo on this forum :S i duno. Lol

-Chikito

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 8:04 pm 
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r rite thanks mate :D :D:D

im gona copy that and turn it into a little cheat sheet (like in the game) ill write down different openers n that

how many negs would u normally suggest using? or just use them till u get a reaction?


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 8:39 pm 
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You have to calibrate negs.

Its VITAL you can blow yourself out if ure not careful.

U cant do what i always accidently do and accidently out right insult her! haha.

U need to calibrate on the woman. For instance a general rule of thumb is that u neg very little maybe 1-2 times (lower self esteem) for a 6-7 and maybe a good 3-4 for a 8 and more for a 9 and for 10's u need to do much more than neg lots, you have to merge sets and shit.

Either way i can only tell u so much, you need to go out and buy Mystery Method by Mystery for all the detail.

A mistake alot of new players make is that they read "The Game" and think they have all the answers. "The Game" only tells you maybe 10% of it all lol.

Mystery Method is like 80% of what u need to know (IMO)

The rest u can only pick up from experience and maybe 1 on 1 teaching with a pro.

You can read up all that in 2 days i did. :) then u should be set for ure 1st sarge in what sounds like a Target Rich Enviroment!

All i can say is, Dont give a fuck if u bomb. Hopefully uve been to your friends house quite often so you wont have the fear of being in an unfamiliar enviroment.

GL!


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Forgot to add, you can slow down your negs when she starts giving you more IOI's. At 1st ignore/neg her IOI's

Famous e.g.
She touches you
PUA: Hey! Hands off! This shit aint for free!
HB: ahha (touches you again)
PUA: Christ! Thats $10!! (let her touch this time! She earned it)
HB: haha...OH CHIKITO I WANT YOU SO BAD!!@%!51!

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 24, 2007 9:07 pm 
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right i think ive got alot of that... its a lot to take on board

i went on amazon at the weekend and had a look at sum books... went a but nuts... the pay just came in and i got

How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Communication Tricks for Big Success in..

The Mystery Method [Hardcover] by Markovik, Erik von

Undercover Sex Signals: A Pickup Guide for Guys [Paperback] by Lowndes, Leil

The Book of Fabulous Questions: Great Conversation Starters about Love, Sex and

How to Get the Women You Desire into Bed [Paperback] by Jeffries, Ross

Cube: Keep the Secret [Paperback] by Gottlieb, Annie

lol

i think it will be ok cos i'll be able to dart from group to group cos i will know most people and their clicks and groups stuff like that

im not really bothered if i get bombed out or w/e because it will probs helping the learning curve


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