I met a girl out at a bar and she told me about herself but didnt tell me she was a dancer. I friended her on facebook and wrote on her wall about her not telling me she was a dancer. she responded with "i thought you already knew since you are a mind reader". So i sent her a message

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well XXXX if i told you everything about yourself what would be the point in talking to you!?
i was surprised to see you are a dancer because i dated a tap dancer/cheerleader back in high school and she turned out to be the most mean spirited person ever. The first time she came over to my house she accidently (so she CLAIMED) stepped on my cats tail. Didnt say sorry or even try to make nice to poor Ceasar, just responded with "i hate cats anyways."

I hope you're not an animal abuser.

Her response.
lol omg youre so random! im more of a people abuser anyway, so your cats are safe!!

She didnt really leave the convo open for me to respond with anything and i dont want to seem needy. I was thinking about neging her response with something like
"a people abuser!? well then i guess i wont be inviting you to climb trees and make kool-aid with me!"

another worry is that if i respond with another joking comment she might take me as a clown, and i dont want that obviously.

any suggestions?

Bringing up the past dancer in the first place wasn't a good thing. It really had nothing to do with her. I'm not sure what I would do now in that situation besides learn from it. Her comment about being a people abuser means she's totally in her frame and not yours. Good luck.

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leave the chat. tell her u got some bull shit to do and u wish u could talk more. get her number.

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Dont listen to that first guy that replied. I think your in good standing with her. That dancer in high school was an excellent dhv, and I think you are going about everything the right way. Just neg her about the people abuser thing...try to figure out what the hell that means ...i dont know i would say something bout her being a sadist and get her to qualify herself. You will do fine.