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PostPosted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 9:16 pm 
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So I was testing some of the lines and negs on girls on FB. one of them went like this:

ME:
too bad I'm gay. you would have been so much my type. :)

HER
xaxaxa..thanks anyway!

ME
:D

Do you actually think that a gay person would say something like that?? :)

it is as if I say to another guy, too bad I'm straight, you would have been so much my type....how would I know what is my type when it comes to guys ? hahaha...

anyway... what do you study in ConU?
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HER:
actuall i figert u werent because i saw your status and u have written that u r intresting in women:)...but ok i just thanked u!;)
i study chemistry!!!!!!!!!!!!
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what do you recommend as the next step?


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PostPosted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 9:47 pm 
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Looking at this conversation we're heading in the wrong direction. Let's look at what you did right on this. You started with an indirect opener which is a personal preference and she hooked enough to respond to you, which is good.

She also checked out your profile from what she said, so she went an extra step there for you, which is a good sign.

Where we goofed is "What do you study in ConU?" This is a comfort building question. This is a typical question that 99% of guys use. There is nothing wrong with this really but we're still trying to build attraction right now!

I can't undo the past no more than you can so here is how we're going to spin it. I would say something like...

Chemistry huh....I see.... you are won of those... :) That reminds me of the time that me and....(Insert a DHV type Story)

This way we throw a "slight neg" not to be too easy. Insert the smiley so she knows we're teasing and not being an asshole. Then tell a short DHV story about us to build attraction. Then take it from there to her IM or Phone Number after a few more interactions.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 10, 2008 10:01 pm 
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Get off the gay issue.

I think you should of said you'd so be my type if I wasnt gay or whatever

THEN moved on..
That is supposed to help build attraction, you have really said anything
that would make her wanted to be attracted to you. Like J said you moved into comfort, so right now she's prbly just thinking shes gonna
have a new "girlfriend" to talk to


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PostPosted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 3:05 am 
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lmao.

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 Post subject: ok so here is an update:
PostPosted: Thu Dec 11, 2008 9:43 pm 
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ok so here is an update, this is what I wrote to her and she replied within minuets:

ME:
Chemisrty.... I see.... so you are one of those who drink water out of test tubes! :D
I had a roommate who was studying chemistry, and once I had to rush her to hospital because she inhaled some gas from an experiment. well, she was a bit dumb (she really did drink water out of test tubes)... :) so if you are dumb, be careful. But I guess you'll be fine, since nosy people usually aer pretty smart ... ;)

HER:
xaxaa!no i dont drink water out of test tubes!:D at least i havent yet!;)
as if i am smart i really dont know,some say i am but it dosent matter because i believe that if u like something and u study hard u can success!!!how about u?


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ok so here is an update, this is what I wrote to her and she replied within minuets:

ME:
Chemisrty.... I see.... so you are one of those who drink water out of test tubes! :D
I had a roommate who was studying chemistry, and once I had to rush her to hospital because she inhaled some gas from an experiment. well, she was a bit dumb (she really did drink water out of test tubes)... :) so if you are dumb, be careful. But I guess you'll be fine, since nosy people usually aer pretty smart ... ;)

HER:
xaxaa!no i dont drink water out of test tubes!:D at least i havent yet!;)
as if i am smart i really dont know,some say i am but it dosent matter because i believe that if u like something and u study hard u can success!!!how about u?
Nice short DHV story by the way it was interesting.

LOL this girl is fun... I'd keep it going a bit.

"You can success! Keep studying babe :) I believe hard work leads to success as well. I really enjoy studying unique topics like....(Insert whatever story)

In the above example you're busting her balls some but building rapport too. ENJOY & GOOD LUCK

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 Post subject: and now...
PostPosted: Mon Dec 15, 2008 9:30 pm 
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ok, things been going well here. and I 've reach the point that I should meet up with her. The thing is I can't really stretch the conversations more than this and I won't be back home till Jan. so this is what I was gonna write her intially. let me know how it is:

"[bla, bla]..listen Jessica, we should catch up sometime. Right now I'm in Dubai, and I return to MTL in January. I add you now as a friend and then I'll contact you later when I get there.
take care,"


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FB game is difficult, but despite the couple of mis steps, looks like a nice job.


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