ok so this HB and i have fun texting back and forth. we've hung out 4 times and text/talk everyday. lots of kino and kissing everytime. but this series of texts just happened and i think i might have made some bad moves. let me know what you think and what the next step is.


ME: if you are in the city tomorrow evening lets grab coffee in between your studies

HB: we can do that, i'll be in the city tonight and tomorrow

ME: i'm busy tonight but tomorrow is perfect. as long as you bring that cute scarf.


HB: dont you think i'm going to let you borrow it!

ME: i get what i want when i want it.

HB: (she texts some lindsay lohan bossy lyrics)

ME: ok lindsay lohan

HB: I hope you had to look that up! and didnt just know it!

ME: def had to look it up

HB: i sure hope so

ME: wow. have fun tomorrow by yourself!

HB: i have finals anyway.. you are the one missing out

ME: i'll show up. but only because i'm attracted to your scarf.

ME: o, and i feel sorry for you. i know how bad you want to see me.

HB: yeah, thats exactly the case.

ME: do you need a spanking?

HB: don't be so dirty. you are at work!

ME: spinach (she hates that word, makes her sick)

HB: i hate you

ME: feelings mutual. get back to studying. and being somewhat serious i am looking forward to seeing you tomorrow. not too much though, just a little.


and she didnt text back. is everything fine? or did i take it too far??? should i wait before contacting her again? call her? etc? why am i so paranoid?!?!?!?! help!


thanks guys

You're fine. You kept the same cocky funny tone throughout the message. Don't worry about it. Text her later if you feel you want to. If not just wait it out, no biggie.

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DONT TEXT BACK!!

If you are supposed to meet tomorrow show up, and she should be there.

No, I definetly dont think you took it to far, you were both flirting back and forth. If she for some reason does its her loss. Id say delete her number if she stands you up, or at least DO NOT text her first

Realz does have a good point here.

I agree you should just show up tomorrow at the agreed upon time. I think you have shown enough interest in her at this point. Show up have a good time, play hard to get, and reep the rewards.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Yes, you are paranoid. You are doing a great job being C&F, but don't over do it. It can get old if you do it to often.

NOTE:
Stop talking/texting with this girl 'everyday'. You don't want to destroy everything you have accomplished. Attraction develops and grows when you DON'T talk or see each other.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene