Okay so we're playing poker the other night...10 guys and 1 girl. I'm basically gaming this girl by using general C+F stuff. No routines or anything like that because I figure it's virtually impossible to keep people's attention on routines if there's a game of poker going on.

We both drop out pretty early. I suck at poker. DLV, perhaps, but one of my other friends had dropped out and was in his room just checking his email or something. So I do a bounce and suggest we go see what he's up to. She follows me. My friend leaves the room to go do something or other and I take over his chair and get her to sit on my lap. I start doing loads of kino escalation, smelling her hair, etc. Then we start to make out.

After that she says she's thinking about going to bed. I ignore her and say something like "I haven't seen your room yet" (lame, I know, but I was drunk and couldn't think of anything better to say). So I just walk into her room (Uni halls) and we start making out some more. She says she feels stupid and that just having a random thing with some guy isn't going to do her any good, but she gives me her number. I say I understand and leave, but we make out a little bit more just before I go.

The next day she talks to me on facebook and says "Sorry but I'm not really interested right now." She claims she's currently trying to get over someone (sounds like a bullshit story to me) and it's complicated or something like that. I see her later on that night in a club and go over to say Hi, but the mood is awkward and she more or less gave me the cold shoulder.

I'm pretty sure that I didn't build enough comfort on poker night, but how would I go about doing that in the situation we were in? Thoughts, guys?

She says: she feels stupid and that just having a random thing with some guy isn't going to do her any good.

She means: She feels stupid cause shes making out with a guy in her room and he isnt trying to fuck her.

Dude a pua must always be advancing, the comfort was there (or else she wouldnt of sat on your lap or made out with you.) but when you stay in one phase too long the chick either gets bored or dissapointed causing you to lose your target.

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