If anyone has anything at all to say about inner game, any tips, interesting info, anything at all please do..thanks, peace

alright mate..
check out "deep inner game" by david deangelo. helped me!
chin up!!!

"Fake it till you make it" seems to be the general idea for most new PUA's in the confidence department but unless you have solid inner game people are going to see right through you. Think of your Confidence as a house that your building, you need to build on a rock solid foundation so that the building stands strong during storms. If you've built your foundation on sand the building can be as beautiful as any other but will crumble when tested and stressed. Without inner game its impossible to establish true exterior confidence, you've got to believe and trust in yourself before you expect anyone else to do the same. Try writing a list of all your good qualities and then comparing them to other people you meet, this may sound vain or shallow but sooner or later you'll start to realize that maybe you are just as strong and capable as anyone else, even the people whose confidence used to intimidate you. Find activities that your not so good at and make it a point to excel at them. Not really the sports type? Go out and join a rec team. Even if you've never played the sport (or sports) at all you'll find that most of your teammates are more than willing to work with you on improving your skills. Organized sports are one of the most confidence boosting activities you can be a part of and they'll develop and inner (not to mention outer) strength that you can't find anywhere else.
Inner game is one of the hardest parts for struggling PUAs in my opinion, but believe me when you push and test yourself your going to eventually break through a wall and be oozing confidence. There'll be no more need to fake it, hell you wont even need to think about it. Your not acting confident you ARE confident.

Sean Messenger has mentioned to be courageous, which is basically faking "confidence". I find that body posture adjustment usually helps with the inner game. Walk slower, shoulders back, eyes looking around "confidentally", head up, etc. When talking, keep eye contact. With that, you start gaining this courage that translates to "confidence".

Also it helps to warm-up before you go out and interact with other people. You become more talkative and your inner game tends to get better. Talk with a friend, read a book outloud and try to make it interesting, talk on the phone, etc.

Remember there are "other fish in the sea". Don't get stuck with one-itis. Have fun, you're out to have a good time, not have sex and hook up with every HB you meet.