I met and HB10 a few weeks ago. I had previously gamed her but she was such a bitch i couldnt take it. This time i decided I wanted to follow through. So I got her number and two days later she invites me over to hang out with her and her sis. We watched TV and then her sis left the room. She asked me to stay the night and in the middle of the night she asks me to "plz put it in, just for a sec". I may be totally infatuated with this chick and i dont wanna ruin things so I tell her maybe we should wait. We stayed up the rest of the night talkin about our future together and even getting matching tats (cheesy i know). I thought i had her locked. Well I saw her one more time and now she responds very differntly to my messages. She used to always say "aww" or "i miss u", now she doesnt seem interested at all. I dont wanna come off as needy but she doesnt even extend invitations like a normal chick would do. I even asked her to go ice skating, go to the zoo for the christmas lights, and the movies. She said no to the first two bc its "too cold out", and never spoke on the movie so we didnt go. How the fuck do i regain interest without lookin like a total AFC lame. I need mad push pull. and cocky funny does not work on her, shes like a freakin mutant. I need some major game to get back face to face. I havent seen her in a week but we talk for a bit on the phone every other night...

i didnt even have to finish this. she's thinks youre gay, man. girl tells you to put it in, PUT IT IN! she's like, oh man this guy likes me wayyyyy too much, im gonna have a clingy, over committed, over interested guy here. next time u see her, i'd like smack her right on the ass and put her on the wall and make out like a savage beast. dude everyone on here who reads this blog is waiting for that moment. they dont come along very often. GIRL ASKS YOU TO PUT IT IN, YOU PUT IT IN. MEMORIZE THAT


and stop calling her. if she calls you, dont return them. thats the only way you're getting this girl back out with you personally. it might take a week, it might take over a month. just stay out of communication

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dude why didnt u put it in? u could have at least fingered her or something.

well man im sure we all have made mistakes we wish we could take back but yours may have been a fatal one. i agree with the above post about her thinking your gay OR another scenario is that SHE thinks you just want to be friends in which case you humiliated her because she pretty much gave herself to you and u rejected her. or maybe she was just looking for a fuck and really is not interested in dating you and talked to you just to humor you. who knows. all i can say is its gonna be really hard to recover buuuut if you want to stay friends with her disregard this forecoming information. just tell her you really want to fuck her because her mind games are driving you crazy and quit messing with you and get to the point. if she brings up about the night she asked u to stick it in her just give her some story...personally i think i good one would be "Im sorry baby i was high on pcp and didnt know WHAT the fuck was going on." if that shit dont work at least u will have an awesome story to tell us in a few days lol

Ok so check this i know you guys all said i was dead even my roomate counted me out, but trust me this chick is very different than any of the hundreds of women ive encountered. She calls me last night i put on the FTC and mention my plans for new years....and shes like "well we are still on for new years right". Going on about how she wants to be wherever I am and she seems still pretty interested. I need the perfect invite for a Day 2/3 that will get me back to her place. Obviously me pickin her up is the best scenario but she wont wanna do anything outside. I need multiple locations and lets keep it cheap fellas haha. we need the big guns for this chick

A 10 asked you to stick it in and you denied her?!?

Before trying to get her back IMO you should ask yourself what exactly you want out of her so you you know what your aiming for and not mess it up again.

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well honestly i do pretyt well with women so pullin a 10s not he big deal. i def want a relationship with her and i think maybe f-closing would have helped her get the emotional attachment i need for her to have. so i didnt wanna come off strong gaming her, i wanted to be genuine but if i need to reframe then i def need to stop being the guy i have been. we talk on instant messanger at work but i dont know what to say to get her hang out. shes very difficult the things most girls would jump at she is reserved about. i need to trick her i guess haha

Just tell her to come over after work

I can't come up with any logical explanation as to why you didnt hit it that night was your talli wacker not working. I know you want to take it slow but she's clearly not the slow type she never become the easy going girl you want her to be ever.

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Never chase a girls beauty. If shes a HB10 ten there is a fair chance shes a player. A big part of inner game is the willingness to let her go. Shes probably got a few guys on the go dude. Dont chase or be phasd by it, just carry on sarging.

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I'm thinking you didn't stick it in because you wanted to send the message that you aren't a player and you had about a 50/50 chance of that being effective. Being a 10, it probably stunned her and came off more as rejection in her eyes. She backed off a little because she was embarrased and didn't want to get embarrased again. After all, she is used to getting her way.

Or...she backed off because she's rotating guys and she was currently trying out someone else. He probably turned out to be a chump, so she came back to you looking for plans and attention.

Or hell, maybe she was just on the rag and didn't want to hang out..

I would personally just move forward and act like nothing happened. I like the idea of pinning her ass up against the wall and having your way with her. You need to get back your man card with this girl.

Good luck brother!