I keep getting indirectly shot down by targets! I can't seem to get girls while they're still available.

For example, I had one target that I've been gaming for a while now, who likes texting me and legitimately finds me interesting reported on her facebook that she's "no longer single". Now I feel like she's just using me for entertainment (because I always have something funny to say) instead of truly being interested.

Another example: I don't know if you could say that I've been gaming this girl but she has sent me iois on several occassions and I've used them to my advantage. Unfortunately, she has major ASD that I never have fully been able to deactivate. Sometimes she'd be super nice to me and others she'd basically back-hand me. At a recent football game she came along with a group of mutual friends and introduced me to a guy who said he'd known her since they were kids. He didn't seem like too big of an AMOG and he came across as a really cool guy. Over the next few days she started to be a lot nicer to me, supposedly as a result of my Bitch Shield deflections, and I was beginning to think that this could go somewhere. Then, out of nowhere she asked me what I thought of this guy she'd introduced me to. Thinking of him as just being her childhood friend I didn't see it as a hoop or think she liked him or something. Unbeknownst to me she'd been mentioning this guy to a lot of people and getting their approval. Now she's so obviously going for him it's not even funny. This sucks because, though I wouldn't call her a one-itis she is hot and though I didn't used to I think that now I really like her.

Am I just not pulling the trigger soon enough? Am I just attracting girls that don't value me the way they do other guys? Am I overreacting? Or, is it some combination of it all?

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All the world is a stage, but the play is badly cast!
-Oscar Wilde

you need to work faster bro. girls only wait so long before they move onto something else. get her interested, keep her interested, leave her wanting more, escalate the situation, and show her you're AMOG

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Anyone can give up. It's the easiest thing in the world. To hold it together as you walk through this hell, when everyone else would understand if you fell to your demons, that is true strength.