Are you guys talking about day#game(got num in day) or like night#(got num at club/bar etc)? Cuz i think they are more likely remeber you if you talked to them and got number in mall then club

thx 4 posting

I like to text a girl as soon as we part after getting her number with something like 'Oh my god who was that totally hot guy you were just talking to?' usually get 'I think that was you ' or 'Oh him he's my new squeeze' etc
The 1st type of reply is sweet and is her acknowledgement that you are hot. If it's anything like the 2nd reply, try hook up later that night. I read this, I think it was MM

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Sorry, but I don't see how blowing up like that over the phone is going to get a girl calling you back...

That sounds like a pretty psychotic response to me. How is a girl going to have any desire to call you back when you've blown up at her, without her even getting to know you?

I disagree with this sentiment. While it may seem AFC and needy to some people to leave a message, realistically, some people (especially HBs) aren't going to call you back if they don't know why you called. When you're calling for the second time, prepare ahead of time what you will say if you have to leave a message. It should be short, to the point, and have an element of mystery, something to hook her interest and make her WANT to call you back.

You can argue whether or not leaving a message is a DLV, I personally disagree, but not leaving a message is neither DHV or DLV, it is the lack of anything, it is stagnant, and that doesn't do much to build attraction, does it?

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I had an idea. When getting a number, make up something for you to do the day after.

"You know, I need to go shopping tomorrow for so and so... You should come help me"

She'll most likely say yes, or give you a excuse to why she can't.

Yes scenario:

You are free to call or text the next day. I'd cancel on her, and wait a few days again. You seem busy. that's good.

Or, take a chance, ask her to go. I'm guessing 75% of the time she has plans, or says she does. Girls are a tricky lot. Maybe tell her to break her plans. You know why girls like the bad boys...


She has something to do:

"well that sucks. I'll have to find someone else to help me".

Damn, that sucks. I could put it off for a few days if you are worth it. Are you?"

I may go out in a nights time and get 5 or 10 numbers depends on me and if I see someone whos worthy of getting there number.. by the time you reach 5 numbers you sometimes cant remember the first number you got.. so what do you do.. ?? Shoot a text as soon as you get the number telling them to long you in there phone and how much of a pleasure it was that you had met them or how much fun you had or what ever the situation maybe.. then wait for a couple days and see if you receive a text back if not text them back to confirm they logged you in and then start your conversation slowly getting to know them and make a friend so she feels comfortable around you slowly joking about certain things see how they react and flirty.. if they stand off a little back off and try again.. I cant sum this up in a few paragraphs but Im a coach and a natural and i have never read any pua books cause never needed too.. so if you ever need a lil help feel free to look me up and maybe schedule an appointment one on one..

So...you can't explain it, but you can teach it? Huh? Your post seemed to be the equivalent of, "I get lots of numbers and then talk to girls in order to get them intersted and if they aren't, then I back off. That means I can teach other people how to have success because I've been with women before."

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I think even a busy man would have a few seconds to leave a voice mail. Just say, hey, just thought i'd call you before a meeting, gtg.

Some shit like that (obviously not word-for-word cause that would just sound terrible).

okay, i haven't read all the posts on this thread, so if this has been discussed before, then ... whatever

i really don't understand this whole wait three days bull shit. why the fuck should one have to play all these mind games? if i want to call a girl, i call her. none of this wait and don't reply to text messages too quickly shit.

there is so much opportunity in phone game to further build attraction and comfort. as soon as the girl picks up, i jump into a story or follow up on some shit i'd been talking to her before. this way, she will remember how amazing of a motha fucka i am.

solomon gave me a real great tip about pickup in general, which can be applied here as well: if the girl has a problem with it or acts bitchy, then call her out on it. this will raise your value like a bitch.

fuck this shit about being needy. call her because you feel like it. being alpha means being able to make your own decisions.

You've obviously never picked up chicks b/f.

As a fellow Old schooler, I completely agree w/ this.

Dude, if you're picking up chicks named "Michael" you got another problem all together.

Sincerely,

Every "Hot" dude

The Voicemail Question

I read this whole thread over and want to sum what has been brought up about the whole 'what if she doesnt pick up/answer/vmail etc etc' situation.

If she has voicemail (almost everyone does), LEAVE ONE! This not only displays confidence, but it shows its not a big deal since because chances are if you call one of your good guy friends and he doesnt pick up, you would obviously leave vmail for him, thus treating her like on the guys. Of course, you have to know what to say, be concise, and DONT ramble or laugh to yourself in the vmail.

Sample message (always think of what to say BEFORE calling in case of voicemail:

PUA:Hey xxxx(i like calling them a funny name like Chief or Boss but feel free to use her name), gdnimrod here, i know you probably had a biiiiiit too much to drink last night so you might be resting it off right now, but after i left you to find my friends the funniest/craziest/etc etc thing happened to me/my friends/the barmaid serving us etc etc! Im going to finish some work/reading/sports at the xxxx place but i should be free to pick up. So ya, give me a call whenever my number is xxxx just in case it didnt show up. Cya!

A voicemail prevents you from being needy (IMO 2 calls in a row with no callback is needy). Also, the way this sample message is structured youre indirectly DHVing by busting on her being drunk (if you met her at a bar, she obviously had a drink or 2 and you call her on it) and it also shows you had other friends there who are cool like you.

Hope this helps.

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