so making long story short, i had a for 2 years, was totally out of the game. returned to the game with a flare, phones, make-outs in/out the club.
the only problem is the 2nd date/day 2. i just cant get pass that, im not talking about gettin the girl to bed right away, i think im just boring i dunno.
i had 2 girls i really wanted to hook up with. i took one of them to a cool bar, we talked and had some laughs... all went good but dats it. she never called and after 2 calls on my behalf i stopped, i never chase girls no matter what.
after what i had with her i decided to take the 2nd one to a club, thought ill have better chances there and again, couldnt get it to work.
what should i do? maybe conversation is boring? maybe im not doin it right?
help needed.
thanks fellas.

Stop goin to places with girls that require talking. Stick to activities, you can fluff during them and they will naturally build attraction (carnivals, game arcades). Or try places neither of you have ever been. This new shared experience will forever be linked to you and since neither of you will have prior knowledge you will just be exploring together (cultural festivals, art museums)