I here facebook is a great way to pick up girls but i want to know how to re arange my profile to get girls to talk or be interested me.

Have you any tips. Thanks mate.

There are a lot of things you can do actually. I'll go over a few of them here.

#1 The biggest thing that you can do for yourself is to have pictures and good amount of them. Not only do you want pictures but you want pictures of yourself that are flattering if possible. Anything where you are being active...such as out at a club, or playing a sport for example. Also, photos of you hanging out with guys, girls, or both. These photos establish you have an active life and that you have a normal social circle with both men and women. Of course, the photos of you with particularly attractive women will be a DHV spike of pre-selection. TOO MANY of these photos and you come off as a player though, so just pepper in a few.


#2 What do you have in your Info Section of your profile. "Relationship Status" and "Looking for" are going to be something she is going to definitely look at. Not to mention "Activities" "Interest" and "About Me" are going to be key sections. Be honest with what you do and what you are interested in. In the About Me section is where you are going to have to add some DHV material to help yourself. Things where you can casually mention a past girlfriend (pre-selection), helping a family member (protector of loved ones), or helping guy friends (leader of men) you will subtley convey this DHV spikes to her.

Make sure not to write a novel here, because simply she won't read all of it. Keep it to a few paragraphs. Do describe yourself and what you are like but as I mentioned before pepper in things. An example of this might be something to the effect of...."I am the type of guy that has to laugh about every 5 minutes, because I simply enjoy life. My past girlfriend and I still frequent the comedy club here I hang out for a good laugh...."


#3 Obviously, is monitor what is written on your wall. Some people may write some things you don't want a potential match to find. Go through what's written on it and delete what you need to.

#4 Your friends. She is going to check out who you have listed as friends more than likely if she becomes more interested in you. I'm not saying remove all your friends but be careful if you have a ton of women listed in there she'll start to label you a player. I know it's not fair but it's how life works, right?

Hope these few tips help. GOOD LUCK & HAVE FUN!

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Hey guys,

You know I don't like to push stuff on this thread because this thread is completely free to the members here for Online Game. I am always available on this post to help with your questions.

With that being said I do have a small business to run. I have updated my website so that people can pay for consultations, in field winging, and phone consultations. It's all done through safe and friendly SPAM.

Okay, the commercial is over. NEXT QUESTION!

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I know this is an old post, but I would said:

"you bitch! my mums dead. What did I ever do to you?"

Love the thread JSmooth, already talking to 2 girls right now, both are throwing me IOUs, one just told me she wants to drink with me. Then I told her I'm not that easy. We've been returning emails (2 replies so far), but it's probably a good time to get her number or atleast her IM, yah?

I wouldn't have used that response, likely I wouldn't have contacted her back. I don't need to be around girls like that.

Glad you like the thread, and it looks like you are doing well. I agree that now is the time to get her phone number. IM is okay but when you can skip a step it's always better to go straight to actually speaking on the phone.

Have a good one

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do girls ever text you just because they want to talk?

how many girls do this to you guys that are really good, all of them?


how do you establish a "its okay to text me just to talk, im completely friendly" frame


the problem over here isn't the fact I we talk too much.

should I just text them a shitload then all of a sudden stop?

MrFickle,

I am not sure if you meant to post this in the "Online Game Questions" thread since it is more related to texting but I will try to answer some of what you have anyways.

I have had several girls just text me to "just talk" at times. Everyone gets lonely from time to time.

You can establish that frame when you are in your first interaction with the girl. When I am building comfort and get her phone number I use to frequently ask "Are you a texter?" Most girls will says Yes. When she does I'd usually say, "Cool, I'm totally going to text you 100 times a day..." This shows a friendly frame while saying it's okay if she messages you.

No you shouldn't text the shitload out of them and then stop. When you call or text you should do it for a reason. The reason may be to build rapport or comfort, or even to setup a date. Don't just text for the hell of it.

Hope it helps,

Jon

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gracias fir da advizorz

I misspoke I really didn't mean "just to talk" What I mean't to say was how often do they text you FIRST for any reason whatsoever.

because it feels like im doing something wrong here.

Where would be an appropriate place for this question?

You could try posting it under the "Closing and Day 2" section since it relates to phone game for more opinions.

Mostly, I have to keep reinitiating the chat with the girl via text as well. This is pretty common as you will find.

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if girls text me for fun "just to talk" im almost NEVER serious in it. girls come to find that i am ALWAYS (98%) the time cocky funny and neg the shit out of them. i think this is why my phone gets blown up all the time now cause girls bored at college or work or anywhere LOVE LOVE LOVE to text me for fun and they always end up asking me to hang out not me asking them... i always delay my responses as well and alot of times i end up gettin another text from them because theyre left in so much suspense for my next response haha. i should post up some good text convos sometime but i pretty damn lazy =P

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Thanks for your input.

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HI J
I hope I won't be repeating this question, but honestly i can't stay in front of the computer to read 380 posts because my eyes burn. So here it is.

When you go to websites like POF for example, which have the INTIMATE ENCOUNTER option... is it even worth messaging girls that have their profile listed in intimate encounters?
When i look in the "sent messages" folder, only about 20% of the girls even read my messages. Needless to say, i had no success.

Secondly, when you run across a profile that say stuff like "I like to be put in my place, fucked, licked, whole night, up the ass ETC ETC" you can't believe your eyes what you're reading... How do you message those girls?

Thanks
Sebastian

Hi Sebastian,

Hope things are going well for you! I don't think this has been asked before, and between us I'm not going to go through the posts either to check. It'll be our secret. LOL.

You ask some good questions here and bring up some interesting points.
Yes I believe that messaging these girls can be helpful, however, it depends on what type of relationship you want in life. If you want a one night stand, dating, or friend with benefits this might work very well. It is possible to get into a sexual relationship and turn it into something long term but a little harder.

You mentioned that only about 20% of the girls even read your messages. I can state from a lot of online personal experience a lot of those people aren't checking their profile daily like you are. Many of them make one and then forget about it. That is a descent percentage but it can be improved upon.

We might need to look at what you're putting in the subject line and using for "interesting" material as far as openers go. But we'll get back to that later.
Profiles that even makes sailors blush! These types of girls are out there and they are available. The key here is not to bore them with bullshit. I get in the mindframe of the "caveman." They want a "man" that is going to pleasure them and can walk away. You will want to be very alpha, in control, and sexualize the conversation quickly in your messages to these type of people.

I wish you lots of luck and happy hunting! You can always change sites if this one isn't producing good results for you. I changed sites all the time when I was looking. Here are some others to think about.

Craigslist
Match
Singlesnet
Chemistry
Facebook
MySpace

Hope the information helps!

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Have you tried plentyoffish.com ?

Any suggestions for setting up my first online profile?

Here is what it looks like right now. http://www.plentyoffish.com/member10082562.htm

CK

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