Alright, we had sex last friday, we rarely get alone time to do it, me being 17 and her being 18. We were at my friends dorm so we slept togeather too. The first time we did it, i wore a condom, then we went to sleep. We woke up about 2 hrs later and (i dont want to get into too much detail), but i wanted to try the other way to do it, b/c i was out of condoms.. i thought i was in the right hole.. but after about 5 mins i wanted to try fingering her at the same time, and it was then that i realized i was doing it the vaginal way.. my friends tell me not to worry b/c i wasnt close to an orgasim.. but im still worried. She's been having stomac aches in her lower abdomen, having weird food cravings, and feels bloated.

Most teens would simply get an abortion, but after friday, i was so scared that i questioned her about the what-ifs. and she said she would have and keep the baby if it ever came to that.

Her period isnt supposed to start for another week, but im still freaking out. I was thinking about slipping her the morning after pill... idk how long it takes b4 it's ineffective.. im just stressed and scared.. Can anyone offer advice on what i should do, or if this is all just in my head?

Thanks for taking the time to listen,
Jordan

I don't know anything about the morning after.. but whatever you do don't sit and stress her out about it. It can cause her ovulation to move either up or back.. and if it's up that's not a great thing. And if it's back it can scare you until it comes. So that's my piece of advice to you.

I feel you though man it is scary and there's not much anyone can say to you to make you feel better other than 'I started'. But I'd just not stress her out. Hope all is well.

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GO talk to your doctor, tell him its confidential matter, he can give you the right advice about your situation. Until then its no good me or anyone else saying dont worry, cos until she has her period you will be stressing it and stuff. It may be something else causing the pain, has she seen her doc? and if not . why?
GO get advice from a medical proffesional, he wont think anything of you either way its just advice hes giving and it wont kill ya to speak to him.

Thats my advice. J1f

Sup bro, I called my grandmother who had 13 kids and my mom and they both told me that it is too early for her to be getting sick. you should go see a doctor though just to be safe. This is a life changing thing and yall should do what ever to find out. Im not gonna tell you to get an abortion or not that is her desision. Good Luck! Wow my spelling sucks.

she told me she doesnt want to go to her doctor until she hits or misses her period b/c he's a good family friend..

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Ok, in all seriousness it is too soon to even know. She wont know if she is prego for atleast another 2 weeks. It takes your little sperm a few days to travel to her eggs. She is just doing this for attention from you so you wont leave her.....

Buuuuuuut... there is such a thing a pre-cum. So, use a raincoat because even though you may not have oragamed, if you are turned on enough, some of your boys could have slipped through the gully.


This is why you always cum in her mouth or on her chest.

CK

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Great advice CK! LOL.

It is way too soon for these symptoms to be set in. I've had PLENTY of pregnancy scares in my life. You'll just have to wait and see. In the mean time there is no sense in stressing about what you can't control.

Just keep it wrapped in the future!

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I understand... but, I have to let my feelings be known.... soo...


BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

CK

Edit: do not drug your Gf. Are you retarded? If you are not ready for the consequeses of sex, than you shouldnt be having it. Educate yourself, otherwise you are going to have another dozen pregnancy scares...

Aso, women have so many wierd things going on with their body, that it could have been anything making her stomach upset. She could have just needed to fart and didnt want to do it around you.




I am looking for the line....



CK

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Like many have stated. Don't stress about it too much even though its hard not too.

The Morning pill is out the question as its passed its time. You have very few options at this point. Have you talked to her about it? Does she want to keep it? There is always a well prepared family that cant physically have a child that can always raise it if you guys arn't ready for it.

Like CK said, if you arn't ready for the worst possible outcome than don't have sex at all.

"If a series of events goes wrong, it will do so" -Murphy

-Rem

like many others have said i wouldn't stress about it to much but still get her to do a pee stick as soon as she can the chances are use will be fine and just take it as a lesson for the future and consider looking at alternative contraception such as the pill or 3 - 5 year rod lol if use want to experiment
and she didn't relise this and think to tell you sooner ??

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Guys don't be stressed if you had intercourse 5 days before ovulation or 1 day after you are okay as sperm cells can't live more than 5 days "there". This portion of the post has been redacted for advertising. Please read the forum rules before posting again.

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Don Salazar